spookie Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 I think I did something really mature today, and I just wanted to share. If you recall, Ive been considering ending it with the guy Ive been seeing, because it felt like we didn't have much of a connection, since all we seemed to ever do was hang out with our friends and party together. Well, instead of ending it, I decided to make myself unavailable for drinking events and sleepovers, aka, easy fwb types of activities, to see what that would do to our r. (Since I'm legitimately busy, it's not like I was playing games with him. I just realized, if it's a "traditional courtship" I want, those are the types of activities I should be committing to, not our usual routine of getting hammered with friends.) So, after I stayed in to study rather than going out to the bars with him a couple of nights, he asked me out for a proper date this afternoon. We went to a tavern I'd been wanting to check out since I moved to this neighborhoood, and sat in the beer garden, and, notably, didn't drink. The conversation was great, the date lasted more than 3 hours not including the 2 hours of hot sex we had afterward (initiated by me - he'd planned on going home after lunch to let me study), and overall, it was a wonderful afternoon. It's nice to actually crush on a guy that likes you, rather than feeling all resentful for no good reason.
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