Romance Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 But if no one cared...we wouldn't have a thread about it...let alone 8+ pages... I should have rephrased Only people who are idiots care. Which is mainly what this forum is composed of, clearly.
Chrome Barracuda Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 i should have rephrased only people who are idiots care. Which is mainly what this forum is composed of, clearly. booooooooooooooooooooooo you suck!!! booooo this man!
Romance Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 booooooooooooooooooooooo you suck!!! booooo this man! *woman you mean!
USMCHokie Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 I should have rephrased Only people who are idiots care. Which is mainly what this forum is composed of, clearly. Then the real world is filled with a lot more idiots than you'll ever imagine from atop your ivory tower... I understand and agree that race shouldn't matter, and obviously for you, it shouldn't have any effect on dating or relationships...again, I agree... But race has, is, and always will be a factor in society...hell, the damn census form asked me for my race...so whether we consciously factor race into our relationship decisions or not, it's something that people think about and will continue to think about...I imagine even you have thought about it...
bananaboat11 Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 Why can't we all sit down... smoke a little green and chill the **** out?
Author BubbleFreak Posted April 19, 2010 Author Posted April 19, 2010 As I said, I don't speak a word of mandarin but I dated Hakka man before. If they are here, surely, they speak english. Hell, they went to US university, a lot of them got advanced degree (I bet the same for Australia too). And of course, Australia has huge population of Malay-chinese, Cantonese-Chinese, I really find it hard to believe that you can't date them because they don't speak english. My cantonese aussie friend just married a Malay Chinese there (he went to a Uni in Sydney). Where are you located? When I went to Melbourne & Sydney, I swear I've seen so many asians in there and yes, they speak perfect english to me. You have missed an important point. It is the expectation of me to speak mandarin or cantonese simply because I am chinese, regardless if they also speak english, that makes me feel inadequate in their company. Even if they didn't expect this of me, my friends still say jokes I don't understand and thereby I cannot really connect on the same level with them. And so this transfers to dating. Given the choice to be in situations with a man where I have to meet the family and have them scrutinise me over my inability to speak to them in their own language, or to be in a situation where I can just speak in english, ofcourse I would choose to be in the more comfortable situation. There are also differences between native english speakers (whether they are white/asian/black/etc) and someone who has studied to speak english. Sometimes you will say things in english even the most scholared foreigners will not understand. I NEVER said it's wrong to date your own race, but it is my choice that I prefer not to unless they are in the same situation as me. Obviously my choice to not date my own race unless they have been raised here too is based on communication factors you cannot ignore. It is not just about race!
Romance Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 Then the real world is filled with a lot more idiots than you'll ever imagine from atop your ivory tower... I understand and agree that race shouldn't matter, and obviously for you, it shouldn't have any effect on dating or relationships...again, I agree... But race has, is, and always will be a factor in society...hell, the damn census form asked me for my race...so whether we consciously factor race into our relationship decisions or not, it's something that people think about and will continue to think about...I imagine even you have thought about it... Yup the world is full of idiots, i do think thats something we could all agree on in the first place.
Author BubbleFreak Posted April 19, 2010 Author Posted April 19, 2010 It seems the thread sure has gone off track from your opening question. I tried to answer it but I'm a white guy who could only tell about some instances I knew of regarding other white guys who had dated Asian and/or black chicks. Btw, being that you are an Asian female, what has been your experience in regards to what the guy said? 80% of white guys have a penis from 4.25" to 6.25" in length and from 1.75" to 2" in thickess (I state the thickness instead of girth since thickness is easier to realise). Have you had sexual hookups with any white guys bigger than that, or mostly or all smaller than that and/or have they all been within the average range? Have you had any Asian gfs mention their experiences in this regard. The theory is that Asian chicks attract a somewhat significant number of white guys with average size penises, and quite a large number of white guys with small penises? Not that guys with big dicks don't have sex with Asian women, some do, but the theory is that guys with big dicks don't limit themselves to just Asian and/or petite chicks and are much more likely to want to have sex with black chicks whereas guys with small dicks will avoid sexual confrontation with the major pelvic regions black chicks tend to sport. The thread has certainly brought up more issues than the topic I opened with, which is exactly what I wanted to happen. I've read every post and find them pretty interesting. As for the penis size thing, I really would not know. I have only had one serious relationship (my current one) and all I can say is he is freakishly good in bed.
Author BubbleFreak Posted April 19, 2010 Author Posted April 19, 2010 Why can't we all sit down... smoke a little green and chill the **** out? I'm up for it:P
SincereOnlineGuy Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 So this dumbass white guy says he hates all white guys that date asian girls because he thinks they are only doing it because they think it is "easy" and that those guys are inadequate about their penis size and can't handle white girls. He bases his assumption on the large numbers of asian girl/white guy couples in his area. Obviously I think he is a f*cking moron. What are your views? This post caused me to ponder whether (and imagine that) I'd be totally turned-off by a purely white woman who had been raised in asia by an entirely asian family. It isn't the fact that someone qualifies as "asian" in racial terms which makes me cringe, it is the sickening disregard for women in general that is so popular in asian countries that is the problem. Growing up and willingly assuming those roles is as sickening to me as is the society which drummed them into young minds long ago. And the males (any males, not just "white guys") who yearn for that sort of a hierarchal mismatch are usually similarly disgusting. Of course this isn't limited to asia, but at least in asia it isn't customary to demand that women adhere to particular dress codes and basically mistreat women in similar ways while attempting to disguise what they're doing as "religion". Metaphorically, I have far more respect for (and feel far less cause for fear from) criminals across the street who make no bones about their being criminals than I do for criminals who try to blend in among the populace.
Zik Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 I've seen lots of pretty asian girls with some ugly ass white dudes
Author BubbleFreak Posted April 19, 2010 Author Posted April 19, 2010 I'm just imagining some guy taking out his penis and placing it next to a ruler. "OMG" he says, "it's only 3inches! I'd better choose that girl over there!" Runs after some asian chick, while she takes out her pepper spray. LOLLUPS
Mr Fractal Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 (edited) you seem pretty obsessed with penis One thing that is evident in forums is that the politically correct posts receive agreements and pats on the back for a good post, or at the very least no personal attack, whilst anyone who dares to present anything politically incorrect often receives a heckler or more in the thread. Nevermind that I presented some analysis in my posts in order to offer up an objective opinion. Nevermind some can just simply say ridiculous with the wave of their hand and offer up nothing in way of presentation, as theirs is on the good side of the fence and analysis is not needed, of course not needed, and obviously anything presented on the bad side of the fence is just a waste of time and ignored and the poster needs to be belittled in some personal way, since the post itself can't be easily refuted. Not that I care, but it is so rather typical, predictable, and boring (because of the lack of analysis) the way things go. I like to know the objective answers in any subject, pc or not. I find I'm in the minority though, as so very many people have quite strong unobjective opinions. It's really a waste of time to present anything to such people, since they can completely and automatically and utterly dismiss anything in any number of ways no matter what. Edited April 19, 2010 by Mr Fractal
Mr Fractal Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 (edited) I'm just imagining some guy taking out his penis and placing it next to a ruler. "OMG" he says, "it's only 3inches! I'd better choose that girl over there!" Runs after some asian chick, while she takes out her pepper spray. LOLLUPS It may can work like that with some guys, in a way. Perhaps some choose subconsciously. There was a poll of 3100 guys that indicated guys 7" and longer had sex with more than twice as many women as guys with average size penises do. Of course this was just an overall in general result, as there are guys with average size who have sex with more women than some big guys. The bottom line though is that it showed a 'correlation' between penis size and the number of women. So if that can occur then how can many of you be so sure it's so absurd that penis size might correlate some with interracial hookups. That poll can be dismissed, but is there anything around to combat it with other than just opinion. Oh so silly. Really? Sure about that. Regarding the OP I don't know the strength of the correlation (mild, moderate, strong) but there seems to be one. Perhaps it's only a mild one and only applies to a small percentage of guys, but too many of you are quick to think that a mild one isn't even possible. Political correctness rules no matter what. Edited April 19, 2010 by Mr Fractal
Chrome Barracuda Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 I think white men want asian women because to them it's possibly a different route than dating white girls. i mean when does a good looking white guy not get white women? lol. Maybe to them it's exotic and new. I think the worse thing for me personally is to find a good looking asian woman and she gots no azz! lol. That would be disheartening. We have to study white men and their dating trends more. I wish there was a website for that.
cuppa Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 I think white men want asian women because to them it's possibly a different route than dating white girls. i mean when does a good looking white guy not get white women? lol. Maybe to them it's exotic and new. I think the worse thing for me personally is to find a good looking asian woman and she gots no azz! lol. That would be disheartening. We have to study white men and their dating trends more. I wish there was a website for that. Never understand this stereotype. Most of my asian girlfriends have ass and boobs (as you know, we start getting really nutritious meals these days and drink lots of milk). We might not have J-Lo bubble butt but I think we have the britney spears ass at least (when she was younger). The penis theory seems far fetched but what do I know...I'm not a white/caucasian dude.
Author BubbleFreak Posted April 19, 2010 Author Posted April 19, 2010 Oh so silly. Really? Sure about that. Regarding the OP I don't know the strength of the correlation (mild, moderate, strong) but there seems to be one. Perhaps it's only a mild one and only applies to a small percentage of guys, but too many of you are quick to think that a mild one isn't even possible. Political correctness rules no matter what. I too think there is too much political correctness and as I've said throughout the thread, it doesn't matter whether you agree with me or not, I'm just interested in reading honest thoughts about this. My main post was that it was absurd that all white men that date asian girls have inadequate penis sizes. That is a huge statement to make and that is why I thought that guy who said it was a moron. Regarding that study you mentioned, plus other studies you can find that show correlations between penis size and number of people they have had sex with, you seriously need to find a study that is more specific. Rather than number you should be looking at types of women (or men) that are being slept with, in order for the study to back you up regarding this topic. There are so many confounding variables also that you would need to account for. BUT yes it is interesting that you brought up the point of not basing opinions just on what we think is politically correct, but also on evidence, and I would be totally interested if anyone could find a study that shows the correlation between white men's penis sizes and the race of woman he is in a relationship with. Ofcourse, there will be some people out there whose reason to date asian girls is because of sexual inadequacies, but there are plenty of other reasons I am sure. Heck, he might simply think a particular asian girl is hot, and that is a good enough reason to become initially attracted to anyone.
Author BubbleFreak Posted April 19, 2010 Author Posted April 19, 2010 I think white men want asian women because to them it's possibly a different route than dating white girls. i mean when does a good looking white guy not get white women? lol. Maybe to them it's exotic and new. I think the worse thing for me personally is to find a good looking asian woman and she gots no azz! lol. That would be disheartening. We have to study white men and their dating trends more. I wish there was a website for that. You make an excellent point. When did the idea of "free choice" get lost in the abyss of crackpot theories why people do what they do. Maybe people date who they want to date because they are simply attracted to them! That's all! Still, I am interested in all the other reasons people can come up with, if someone thinks it then it is probably true for someone somewhere out there... LOL at the no azz thing. I guess I admit I have no ass but I do have big boobs that my boyfriend loves.
Author BubbleFreak Posted April 19, 2010 Author Posted April 19, 2010 This post caused me to ponder whether (and imagine that) I'd be totally turned-off by a purely white woman who had been raised in asia by an entirely asian family. It isn't the fact that someone qualifies as "asian" in racial terms which makes me cringe, it is the sickening disregard for women in general that is so popular in asian countries that is the problem. Growing up and willingly assuming those roles is as sickening to me as is the society which drummed them into young minds long ago. And the males (any males, not just "white guys") who yearn for that sort of a hierarchal mismatch are usually similarly disgusting. Of course this isn't limited to asia, but at least in asia it isn't customary to demand that women adhere to particular dress codes and basically mistreat women in similar ways while attempting to disguise what they're doing as "religion". Metaphorically, I have far more respect for (and feel far less cause for fear from) criminals across the street who make no bones about their being criminals than I do for criminals who try to blend in among the populace. So you're saying that race is not the issue, but it is the attitudes that people hold, that can make them attractive/disgusting in your eyes? And, that you prefer people to just be open about what they believe in? Gotta ask because I'm confused about your post.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 There was a poll of 3100 guys that indicated guys 7" and longer had sex with more than twice as many women as guys with average size penises do. Well great, but that probably has almost nothing to do WITH the size of those penises. The female counterpart would be breast size. Unfortunately society cannot separate actual breast size ("tissue mass", if you will) from the tangent apparent self-confidence associated with breasts. The results of such a study done on females in relation to breast size may indeed render the expected numbers parallel to what you offer. The problem with the data is that it surely follows more closely the amount of apparent self-confidence than it does the amount of breast mass. Now adjust those numbers for the fact that most can get a general perception of how much breast mass arrives with a female, and that it isn't so easy to anticipate penis size in the same way... and it all boils down to "confidence" being the telling factor, and not mere "penis size".
SincereOnlineGuy Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 So you're saying that race is not the issue, but it is the attitudes that people hold, that can make them attractive/disgusting in your eyes? And, that you prefer people to just be open about what they believe in? Gotta ask because I'm confused about your post. Right, race is not the issue. Customs are more central as an issue than is the mere color of somebody's skin. Western guys striving to marry someone and then dominate them can find suitable candidates of various races who will stand for that sort of treatment. However, if you want to envision yourself "with" someone, as your partner for a lifetime, the idea of dominating them or accepting their dominance seems like a pretty poor foundation on which to build that lifetime. It strikes me as odd how society can scorn the mistreatment of women in most every other scenario, yet when one justifies that mistreatment under the veil of "religion", then everyone is expected to turn and look the other way.
Mr Fractal Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 Well great, but that probably has almost nothing to do WITH the size of those penises. The female counterpart would be breast size. Unfortunately society cannot separate actual breast size ("tissue mass", if you will) from the tangent apparent self-confidence associated with breasts. The results of such a study done on females in relation to breast size may indeed render the expected numbers parallel to what you offer. The problem with the data is that it surely follows more closely the amount of apparent self-confidence than it does the amount of breast mass. Now adjust those numbers for the fact that most can get a general perception of how much breast mass arrives with a female, and that it isn't so easy to anticipate penis size in the same way... and it all boils down to "confidence" being the telling factor, and not mere "penis size". Yes, confidence was the main difference. That was my point. The thread asks if guys with smaller or even average penises more often go for petite Asian chicks. If so, then would be confidence related in that regard also.
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