allanworks Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 Indeed. Don't be so serious. Be the short guy' date=' approach the tall girl and tell her you are 6'9".......when you stand on the ladder and that you'd gladly stand on one to be able to look into those [b']deep[/b]...beautiful...big eyes of hers...:love: Is that a ladder up your stocking or a stairway to heaven?
Woggle Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 If I were single I would make it a point to never date a woman that dislikes the men of her own ethnic background. I see nothing wrong with interracial dating all but anybody who hates their own culture to that degree has some issues. I have seen this issue with some asian women and it is a turnoff.
stillafool Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 Actually, yes, they are...to many Asian women...these women feel that they are entitled to a white guy... Why? what does he have to offer? I see Asian men providing for their families quite well.
Woggle Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 Why? what does he have to offer? I see Asian men providing for their families quite well. White American men are to some Asian women what Black men are to some White women. It is an exotic way to rebel against their family.
tami-chan Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 Why? Are white guys suppose to be a prize? As an Asian woman, who always seems to end up being asked out by Caucasian men(nowadays, anyway), I do not think they are a "prize". I do not understand that mentality-it sounds like someone is projecting his insecurities. Understandable. In univ, I had a few Asian men who wanted to go out with me-they didn't know I was married! Now, that I am not married, most Asian men, I believe will not ask me out because 1) I am divorced 2) I have a child from my previous marriage. There is so much for me to consider when going out with an Asian man. For one, most Asian mothers will have an issue with the two things I have mentioned earlier. Frankly, I just feel that life is too short to have to come into a relationship already on a defensive mode.
tami-chan Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 Skydiveaddict please meet Lovelybird and tami-chan. Thanks, Stillafool, but SDA is my buddy already. Any woman would be lucky to have him as a partner in life.
wierdmunky Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 Actually, yes, they are...to many Asian women...these women feel that they are entitled to a white guy... http://factfinder.census.gov/servlet/DTTable?_bm=y&-geo_id=01000US&-ds_name=ACS_2008_3YR_G00_&-mt_name=ACS_2008_3YR_G2000_B02001 Here's a link the the United States census. Feel free to wander the site. Notice where white people are on the list : ) yes, most people will not go out of their way to really look even though we hear the words "census" a lot. For the record, any negative comment towards a race can hinder you on an individual level especially if you have no rebellious factor in your being., since what your are insulting is what they are made of and cannot change. In biology that would less than 5% of your human genes. : ) Not that you're insulting. Hard not to take that seriously sometimes. Respect/relationships are approached in completely different directions in different cultures. Mine vs American are quite opposite. I'm 2G so I'm smack in the middle of these conflicts. I also travel a lot so I in some people's eyes, I may even count for more than one Filipino person haha. If I drove to the midwest, but live here, some seemingly unknowing individual with no experience of Asians could say we are commuting there and spread the word. Perspective. I realize some people can take the issues (and there are SO many going on here) lighter, and it's good to laugh and just throw it all up in the air because things are obviously not perfect, some who have experience harsh or small difficulties because of race though will definitely be more defensive. My dad for example. So when you say a girl (issue) is less for any reason (issue) and a factor of race (issue) could have something to do with it, expect tons of arguments to come up.
stillafool Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 As an Asian woman, who always seems to end up being asked out by Caucasian men(nowadays, anyway), I do not think they are a "prize". I do not understand that mentality-it sounds like someone is projecting his insecurities. Understandable. In univ, I had a few Asian men who wanted to go out with me-they didn't know I was married! Now, that I am not married, most Asian men, I believe will not ask me out because 1) I am divorced 2) I have a child from my previous marriage. There is so much for me to consider when going out with an Asian man. For one, most Asian mothers will have an issue with the two things I have mentioned earlier. Frankly, I just feel that life is too short to have to come into a relationship already on a defensive mode. I can certainly understand your point. I take issue with caucasian men thinking they are some big deal when they are no different than any other man IMHO.
cuppa Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 Thanks, Stillafool, but SDA is my buddy already. Any woman would be lucky to have him as a partner in life. I don't know SDA's race but he seems like a pretty cool dude in his post (plus he knows Krav Maga, any guy who practice MMA and excel at it is huge plus to many women ).
VertexSquared Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 I typically gravitate towards Asian females because I find them to be more intelligent on average. Flame me all you want -- the correlation's totally there.
allanworks Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 ive dated a asian girl once i didnt care she was asian it was that she treated me good then she left me stating that i was only dating her because of her being asian.because of people stating stupid **** online her mother read some **** online and blames all white men and told here doughter to leave me or go back to japan
Author BubbleFreak Posted April 19, 2010 Author Posted April 19, 2010 ive dated a asian girl once i didnt care she was asian it was that she treated me good then she left me stating that i was only dating her because of her being asian.because of people stating stupid **** online her mother read some **** online and blames all white men and told here doughter to leave me or go back to japan That's unfortunate she was influenced by other people's opinions, but the decision in the end was hers, and she missed out on someone that was genuine. The threat of being sent back to Japan seems quite extreme though. My boyfriend is white and also does not care that I am asian. His previous girlfriend was white and I am nothing like her. I was raised in Australia and have little opportunity to speak my own language (hakka, a minority chinese dialect) so it was just natural for me to gravitate towards someone I could get along with really well in English (and teach him swear words in hakka)
Author BubbleFreak Posted April 19, 2010 Author Posted April 19, 2010 To the people that have a problem with asian girls not dating their own race, this is my response: Sometimes I feel stupid when amongst my chinese friends (and family) and I can't order a certain dish when we go to yumcha because I don't know how to say it in mandarin/cantonese (the dialects most common around here). They will say jokes I don't understand. It's easier when I can just say stuff in English and not be expected to know another language simply because of my appearance, and hardly anyone speaks my dialect where I live. This means I would probably never go out with a chinese guy because of communication barriers unless he was raised here too with really good English. This does not mean I hate my own race, hell no!
Romance Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 i think a lot of asian girls are pretty and who gives a **** what skin color they want to date? no one cares.
USMCHokie Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 Sometimes I feel stupid when amongst my chinese friends (and family) and I can't order a certain dish when we go to yumcha because I don't know how to say it in mandarin/cantonese (the dialects most common around here). And this is precisely why I never eat dim sum...
USMCHokie Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 i think a lot of asian girls are pretty and who gives a **** what skin color they want to date? no one cares. That's like saying racism doesn't exist anymore. I personally don't agree with it, but you're mistaken when you claim that no one cares.
Romance Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 That's like saying racism doesn't exist anymore. I personally don't agree with it, but you're mistaken when you claim that no one cares. Yeah but if you look at it in an open manner, no one cares. Like, lets not act like we're in the backwoods of Kentucky here.
Mr Fractal Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 (edited) That's unfortunate she was influenced by other people's opinions, but the decision in the end was hers, and she missed out on someone that was genuine. The threat of being sent back to Japan seems quite extreme though. My boyfriend is white and also does not care that I am asian. His previous girlfriend was white and I am nothing like her. I was raised in Australia and have little opportunity to speak my own language (hakka, a minority chinese dialect) so it was just natural for me to gravitate towards someone I could get along with really well in English (and teach him swear words in hakka) It seems the thread sure has gone off track from your opening question. I tried to answer it but I'm a white guy who could only tell about some instances I knew of regarding other white guys who had dated Asian and/or black chicks. Btw, being that you are an Asian female, what has been your experience in regards to what the guy said? 80% of white guys have a penis from 4.25" to 6.25" in length and from 1.75" to 2" in thickess (I state the thickness instead of girth since thickness is easier to realise). Have you had sexual hookups with any white guys bigger than that, or mostly or all smaller than that and/or have they all been within the average range? Have you had any Asian gfs mention their experiences in this regard. The theory is that Asian chicks attract a somewhat significant number of white guys with average size penises, and quite a large number of white guys with small penises? Not that guys with big dicks don't have sex with Asian women, some do, but the theory is that guys with big dicks don't limit themselves to just Asian and/or petite chicks and are much more likely to want to have sex with black chicks whereas guys with small dicks will avoid sexual confrontation with the major pelvic regions black chicks tend to sport. Edited April 19, 2010 by Mr Fractal
allanworks Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 That's unfortunate she was influenced by other people's opinions, but the decision in the end was hers, and she missed out on someone that was genuine. The threat of being sent back to Japan seems quite extreme though. her mom and dad was old school japanese they lived in Kanazawa district his father told me if she got preganit before merrage hed kill me in the way of his people.
Chrome Barracuda Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 her mom and dad was old school japanese they lived in Kanazawa district his father told me if she got preganit before merrage hed kill me in the way of his people. GOT DAMN!!!
USMCHokie Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 Yeah but if you look at it in an open manner, no one cares. Like, lets not act like we're in the backwoods of Kentucky here. But if no one cared...we wouldn't have a thread about it...let alone 8+ pages...
cuppa Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 And this is precisely why I never eat dim sum... For real? I don't speak a word of mandarin (I'm malay & Chinese)....that doesn't stop me from eating dim sum or hanging out with asian people (or any other race). I don't see that as an issue at all, it's not asians in the US don't speak english, they do. It's easier when I can just say stuff in English and not be expected to know another language simply because of my appearance, and hardly anyone speaks my dialect where I live. This means I would probably never go out with a chinese guy because of communication barriers unless he was raised here too with really good English. This does not mean I hate my own race, hell no! As I said, I don't speak a word of mandarin but I dated Hakka man before. If they are here, surely, they speak english. Hell, they went to US university, a lot of them got advanced degree (I bet the same for Australia too). And of course, Australia has huge population of Malay-chinese, Cantonese-Chinese, I really find it hard to believe that you can't date them because they don't speak english. My cantonese aussie friend just married a Malay Chinese there (he went to a Uni in Sydney). Where are you located? When I went to Melbourne & Sydney, I swear I've seen so many asians in there and yes, they speak perfect english to me.
cuppa Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 It seems the thread sure has gone off track from your opening question. I tried to answer it but I'm a white guy who could only tell about some instances I knew of regarding other white guys who had dated Asian and/or black chicks. Btw, being that you are an Asian female, what has been your experience in regards to what the guy said? 80% of white guys have a penis from 4.25" to 6.25" in length and from 1.75" to 2" in thickess (I state the thickness instead of girth since thickness is easier to realise). Have you had sexual hookups with any white guys bigger than that, or mostly or all smaller than that and/or have they all been within the average range? Have you had any Asian gfs mention their experiences in this regard. The theory is that Asian chicks attract a somewhat significant number of white guys with average size penises, and quite a large number of white guys with small penises? Not that guys with big dicks don't have sex with Asian women, some do, but the theory is that guys with big dicks don't limit themselves to just Asian and/or petite chicks and are much more likely to want to have sex with black chicks whereas guys with small dicks will avoid sexual confrontation with the major pelvic regions black chicks tend to sport. you seem pretty obsessed with penis
Chrome Barracuda Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 you seem pretty obsessed with penis lol. I think what that poster was saying was that white guys feel intimidated by females that are more sexually ahead of him so white men would pick an asian woman because if he has a little penis he would still feel like a king. lol. That a ridiculous assumption though.
USMCHokie Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 For real? Heheh, no, it was more of a joke than anything else...but it's really expensive and isn't that fulfilling of a meal...so I don't go unless I'm eating with my parents if they happen to be visiting... And I feel like Asian people avoid me just as much, if not more, than I avoid them...
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