Ports Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 For the past year me and this guy have been taking the same bus together once or twice a week, seeing each other only 5 minutes at a time. we get alone well and always have big conversations. One day we saw each other out walking. He said "Hey Cutie Pie" and we talked for a bit. Then a few days later on the bus he asked for my number and said we would get drinks sometime. then he didn't call. I didn't see him for over 2 weeks where he asked for my number again because someone had jokingly took it from. So I wrote it on his hand. then he still hadn't called. The next week he had apologized for not calling stated a family problem. then asked what I was doing that weekend. I said I was going out of town and hes aid "ohhh your going out of town" then he never called and that was 2 weeks ago and we haven't caught the bus together yet. Now I'm confused does he still want to hangout, is he interested in me or was he just looking to hangout as friends? Also what do you suggest I do next time I see him?
Rorschach Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 You might've scared him a bit when you said you were going out of town, if you're interested try setting up some actual plans when you next see him. Or encourage him to.
marsle85 Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 Ummm no. Ignore what Rorschach says. Stop expecting him to call. He's not going to. COMPLETELY ignore what men say, and start paying attention to what they do. If this guy thought you were a huge catch, he would have tackled that guy who "jokingly" stole your number from him. If that even happened. Pah-leeease. When you see him, act cool and relaxed. After all, your world doesn't end that he didn't call. Act like you didn't even notice. Move on. Next!
Rorschach Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 Ummm no. Ignore what Rorschach says. Stop expecting him to call. He's not going to. COMPLETELY ignore what men say, and start paying attention to what they do. If this guy thought you were a huge catch, he would have tackled that guy who "jokingly" stole your number from him. If that even happened. Pah-leeease. When you see him, act cool and relaxed. After all, your world doesn't end that he didn't call. Act like you didn't even notice. Move on. Next! Better advice than mine I'm sure.
marsle85 Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 I just feel like if this guy thought about her as much as she's thinking about him, he would have called atleast once. And going out of town is entirely comprehensible. It's not like she said she was going to Africa for the weekend.
Rorschach Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 I just feel like if this guy thought about her as much as she's thinking about him, he would have called atleast once. And going out of town is entirely comprehensible. It's not like she said she was going to Africa for the weekend. I agree, but I like to be optimistic, and if I was a guy and somebody stole a number from me (just assuming he's not BSing here) I'd be pretty freaking sheepish about getting a number AGAIN (I'd feel like a giant ass) and then when I finally call since and she says 'sorry I'm not available this weekend' from my point of view she's not interested anymore. But still I think your answer is more likely, I'm just being positive.
Princess1985 Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 Mannnnn!! Men are so confusing and annoying!!! ...But,..I think that maby he has a girlfriend that's kinda off and on, and that's why he couldn't call you like he said he would and lied and said his friend took the number from him. If you think about it, that a really stupid lie cuz people don't do things like that. I say just forget about him. ..and maby later on he will come out of nowhere again. ...PLease answer my thread!!!
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