cute_girl Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 Hiya, I am currently dating this guy who I really like and we seem to get along really well. We have been dating for about 3 months now, but the other day we were talking and he asked if I would shave my hair downstairs as he said it would be sexy given that I currently don't do anything other than occassionally trim it. Is this a normal kind of request? What do other females out there do? Ever experienced the same situation as me?
anne1707 Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 A very normal request. it might be worth you have a look at this recent thread http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t225338/
Rorschach Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 Definitely normal and encouraged, shaved downstairs=sexy.
D-Lish Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 Yes, it's a normal request- and a common part of the grooming process nowadays.
threebyfate Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 Another vote for waxing which is what I do. But I do have to inject something. Why the need for hair removal around the genitals? Only prepubescent girls are naturally denuded. A pretty sick thought if you think about it.
Enema Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 Pubic hair on females is gross. I won't go down unless it's shaved and often won't even have sex unless it's bare. May be a controversial opinion... but, you should at least get a good cross section of opinions from guys.
marsle85 Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 Pubic hair on females is gross. I won't go down unless it's shaved and often won't even have sex unless it's bare. May be a controversial opinion... but, you should at least get a good cross section of opinions from guys. I think this goes a little over the line... but I can understand why you wouldn't want to go down on someone. Interesting. A con of waxing however is the week periods you have to go before waxing (about 5). I know before every wax I have tiny little hairs grown in. Would that be offensive? It's not likely I'd change my wax schedule however. It's so much more appealing, and the bare skin lasts longer than shaving (easily by 2 weeks). I can handle a little hair for one or two weeks in between waxes.
FryFish Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 Its completely normal. And I prefer trimmed to shaved... Or cute little patterns.
Enema Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 stuff...... As long as it's not more than a few millimeters long, it's ok.... even for eating. I don't demand waxing... shaving is ok. Anything remotely resembling "natural" is a turn off for me.
D-Lish Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 As long as it's not more than a few millimeters long, it's ok.... even for eating. I don't demand waxing... shaving is ok. Anything remotely resembling "natural" is a turn off for me. I used to wax, but I hate those moments when there is a little growth. Even a little growth to me is a turn off to me! lol. What about you Enema, do you manscape?
Rorschach Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 I think this goes a little over the line... but I can understand why you wouldn't want to go down on someone. Interesting. A con of waxing however is the week periods you have to go before waxing (about 5). I know before every wax I have tiny little hairs grown in. Would that be offensive? It's not likely I'd change my wax schedule however. It's so much more appealing, and the bare skin lasts longer than shaving (easily by 2 weeks). I can handle a little hair for one or two weeks in between waxes. Little hairs tickle, if it doesn't ruin the mood for me to giggle then I have no problem with it
ADF Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 Oh Jees-Louis. Yes, I am afraid it is normal within a certain age group. At 40, I am old enough to remember when women didn't all shave their pubic hair to the skin. Some probably did, but it was by no means the normal thing to do. Nowadays, it is. Younger people have this idea that pubic hair is dirty, that it "gets in the way," blah, blah, blah. It is probably the influence of adults films, where clean shaven genitals are the norm for both men and women. If shaving doesn't bother you, go ahead. But frankly, I don't understand why a grown woman's body shouldn't look like a grown woman's body.
LucreziaBorgia Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 Oh Jees-Louis. Yes, I am afraid it is normal within a certain age group. At 40, I am old enough to remember when women didn't all shave their pubic hair to the skin. Some probably did, but it was by no means the normal thing to do. Nowadays, it is. Younger people have this idea that pubic hair is dirty, that it "gets in the way," blah, blah, blah. It is probably the influence of adults films, where clean shaven genitals are the norm for both men and women. If shaving doesn't bother you, go ahead. But frankly, I don't understand why a grown woman's body shouldn't look like a grown woman's body. Word. Shaving was suspect when I was a teenager - it used to indicate that you either had crabs and were trying to get rid of them, or you were into some weird sort of pedo fetish. A baldy would get the same reaction that a full untrimmed bush does now. Something like... I trim, but luckily my man is a couple of years older than me and doesn't mind some growth - his benchmark for 'sexy' is Playboy's Miss November 76 - Patti Maguire. That was his sexual awakening, and it involved a grown woman with sexy grown woman features. I'm glad I don't feel compelled to go through the process of having to shave my hair down to the skin or rip it out. As for younger folk, yes - shaving seems to be the norm now and it isn't abnormal for a younger man to request clean shaven. After all, that is what seems to be the newer 'pubic hair' benchmark of sexy.
RobM Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 Pubic hair on females is gross. I won't go down unless it's shaved and often won't even have sex unless it's bare. I have just the opposite situation, my wife doesn't like me to go down on her unless I'm shaved, otherwise my scruffy facial hair is too rough on her skin.
BubbleFreak Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 It's a normal request. Try shaving it first though so that you can get used to it, and if you don't like it the hairs will grow back faster than if you waxed it. Plus, shaving doesn't hurt.
SomewhatExperienced Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 I love when girls shave, especially when they wax. Trust me, he'll likely appreciate it more that you'll know. You likely get some good oral out of it too
Enema Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 I have just the opposite situation, my wife doesn't like me to go down on her unless I'm shaved, otherwise my scruffy facial hair is too rough on her skin. I get that too. My wife hates it when I have any kind of facial hair. In response to D-Lish: Yes, I manscape. Hate hair on me too. Arms, legs, chest, pits, groin... I do it all!
BubbleFreak Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 Yes, I manscape. Hate hair on me too. Arms, legs, chest, pits, groin... I do it all! I think body hair on a man is masculine and sexy, as long as the pubes are trimmed. I don't like facial hair though. Personal preference.
That_girl Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 I would do it. I already do! LOL I just find it much more comfortable to be clean shaven down there. I feel that it looks prettier too. It's not a horrible thing to request something like that, I mean I would probably ask a guy to shave his face if his beard bothered my chin.
Romance Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 I think thats a quite normal and fine request,he waited three months. I personally shave it all off, I dislike hair, as does my bf.
Crazy Magnet Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 I think it's normal to ask for a bit of landscaping. I personally shave and I've never had any complaints, that's for sure. The guys I've been with since shaving all say that's what they prefer (an age span of 23 to 37, so quite a wide age range there!) When I first started dating my BF he was TOTALLY natural. I asked him to trim it up after the first time we had sex. I thought it was odd that he's never had a woman ask him to do that before and he had never considered trimming. Hair is my mouth is gross. My theory is if you want a blow job every day, shave that sh*t!!
tigressA Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 Yes, it's a normal request, but of course you shouldn't do anything that you're not comfortable with just to please someone else. I don't get anything from your post that says you're uncomfortable with the idea, but just so you know that.... I don't shave or wax; I trim. IMO, hair is natural and beautiful and I like to have some down there. If a guy I'm about to sleep with has a problem with that, then I kick him to the curb. I prefer guys with hair down there too, but if a guy likes to shave then I won't say boo about it.
make me believe Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 When I first started dating my BF he was TOTALLY natural. I asked him to trim it up after the first time we had sex. I thought it was odd that he's never had a woman ask him to do that before and he had never considered trimming. Hair is my mouth is gross. My theory is if you want a blow job every day, shave that sh*t!! Omg! Same thing happened with me and my boyfriend. He was a jungle when I first met him! lol. I waited a couple months before I asked him to clean it up, and he was sooo surprised. I couldn't believe nobody had ever said anything about it before! I hated finding pubes lodged in my clit after sex. I still can't believe none of his ex-gf's ever asked him to at least trim it up a bit. Anyway, to the OP, just trimming is fine if that's what you're comfortable with, but there's nothing wrong with shaving it all off just to try it out and see if you AND your boyfriend like it better.
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