lsb Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 I use to snoop on my ex-boyfriend. I would check his text messages every time I was over his place. There was a point I tried to stop but I still did. I admit I did not trust him. But the thing is I did find things. He wrote these messages to this one woman in particular. And it still eats at me. I never confronted him about it. And I really feel like I need to for myself. I just want to get someone else's opinion on this. My main issue is that this is the first man I was ever with. And I feel messed up. He still messages me asking to start fresh. If I were to talk to him about this, what do you think would be the best method? Should I see him face to face? Email? We haven't spoke in 8 months. But I still had feelings for him when we split. And I think I still do. The problem is this is eating away at me and I am taking it out on people in my life now. I also feel miserable and bitter about the whole thing. Like, he was the first guy I was with and I deserved more. You know?
D-Lish Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 he was the first guy I was with and I deserved more. You know? Which is why wasting time re-visiting your past with him isn't worth it. There are plenty of guys out there that will give you what you deserve. He had his chance, and he blew it.
EYECANDY000 Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 Dont email , dont call. just let it go. Theres no point of contacting him to talk about something that happened 8 months ago. leave it
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