Don'tWannabeAWannabe Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 Seriously, I feel like I reached my peak already, 2 to 3 years ago. Between age 20 and 21, I hooked up with 12 girls. I was on a roll in those 2 year; I was with more girls than before or since. But I'm only 23 now and I haven't even dated in months. I thought graduating and getting a career would improve my dating life but it really hasn't; I was better off when I was near-broke and halfway through college. Is there anything to look forward to? When is the best age for a guy to date, hook up or otherwise just meet women?
EasyHeart Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 If you're looking for random hookups, then nothing is better than college, simply because you're surrounded by young, single women. Once you get out into the real world, most of the women you meet are older and/or married. I'd say late 30s is the best time to be a single guy. You can date women from their late 20s to early 40s without any awkwardness, and even dip younger for a little fun every now and then. It depends on the guy, too. If you're a single, 38 year old professional man with a good career, some charm and social skills, and maybe even a little bit of class, you will have no problems. But if you're 38, live with a bunch of dudes, and think a baseball cap is a fashion statement, then you will never, ever get laid.
sagetalk Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 I would say 30s. I'm 29 and just starting to get a great job that I really enjoy. Once women see you are established, that alone will help. Also, very attractive women <25 tend to like aggressive, short term, jerk/cocky boyfriends who are after them exclusively for sex (whether the girl knows it or not). If you're one of those guys, you will clean up from 16-25, after that, you better start making some serious money. So I would say you are fine. When you hit 30 to late 30s you can go after girls from 25-39. These women are much smarter than the 18-25 crowd, they know what they want, and in many cases they will come after you much more aggressively then the 18-25 girls. Also, the human brain fully develops it's ability to measure risk at 25, so stable guys start looking much more attractive than losers with their hat sideways and pants to their knees. Dating in the 18-25 crowd is very risky in my opinion. People's careers are changing, peoples brains are not fully developed, people are changing schools, they move alot, not a very good environment for a serious relationship. I don't think your missing much, I'd rather have a hot girl when she's smart than when she's dumb. But you may feel differently. You're still young and the girls your age are still going after losers. Give it time and always keep your eyes out for girls who are not looking for losers. Those are my favorite .
Enema Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 They say men are the most attractive when they're 35. ie. You need to age well, keep fit and be successful. Sure, you probably got a lot of poon when you were in college. But none of it was meaningful. It's fun sure, but that's it.
Author Don'tWannabeAWannabe Posted April 30, 2010 Author Posted April 30, 2010 They say men are the most attractive when they're 35. ie. You need to age well, keep fit and be successful. Sure, you probably got a lot of poon when you were in college. But none of it was meaningful. It's fun sure, but that's it. I'd rather have lots of meaningless fun. Seriously, when I'm not dating or even just casually hooking up, I just feel bored and tired. I feel like I'm not taking advantage of my youth; I feel old at just at 23 already.
Frontliner Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 Seriously, I feel like I reached my peak already, 2 to 3 years ago. Between age 20 and 21, I hooked up with 12 girls. I was on a roll in those 2 year; I was with more girls than before or since. But I'm only 23 now and I haven't even dated in months. I thought graduating and getting a career would improve my dating life but it really hasn't; I was better off when I was near-broke and halfway through college. Is there anything to look forward to? When is the best age for a guy to date, hook up or otherwise just meet women? Big deal you had sex 12 times over the period of 2 years. That means you got laid once every 9 weeks. Doesn't mean anything you pathetic cretin. Get a real girlfriend and maybe you'll get sex more than once a week for the first time in your life you degenerate.
Author Don'tWannabeAWannabe Posted April 30, 2010 Author Posted April 30, 2010 Big deal you had sex 12 times over the period of 2 years. That means you got laid once every 9 weeks. Doesn't mean anything you pathetic cretin. Get a real girlfriend and maybe you'll get sex more than once a week for the first time in your life you degenerate. I said 12 GIRLS, not 12 TIMES. I Had sex with those girls more than once each, you cankerous vagabond! Learn to read!
Green Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 I guess every guy peaks at a different age. I'm older then you, still in my twenties and I know I could get way more a$$ now then when I was 21. I'm far more sucessful now and I have a lot more confidence... I also think I look better now.
USMCHokie Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 I guess every guy peaks at a different age. I'm older then you, still in my twenties and I know I could get way more a$$ now then when I was 21. I'm far more sucessful now and I have a lot more confidence... I also think I look better now. +1.
make me believe Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 I think late 20s to mid 30s is the best age for guys. Late 20s only if they are mature, though. Otherwise 30-33 is best because they are likely to be mature, still look good, still fun, but also successful & interested in settling down. The reason you think you peaked at ages 20-21 is because you were in college where everyone is hooking up. So it's not surprising you hooked up with 12 girls in that time. Life in the real world doesn't usually involve the constant parties and opportunities for hooking up that college does..
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