Kris30 Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 Last week a guy broke a date with me and I haven't heard from him since. So now I'm thinking if we aren't going to date maybe we could just have sex? Thinking of texting and asking him. What do you think?
skydiveaddict Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 Last week a guy broke a date with me and I haven't heard from him since. So now I'm thinking if we aren't going to date maybe we could just have sex? Thinking of texting and asking him. What do you think? I think you should have more respect for yourself
RobM Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 If you want nsa sex and don't care if you date him, then go ahead and do it, as long as you're comfortable with it don't worry what anyone here thinks.
CarrieT Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 There's a reason he broke a date with you and just getting cheap sex is not necessarily going to interest him. Leave him alone and move along.
Lizzie60 Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 Last week a guy broke a date with me and I haven't heard from him since. So now I'm thinking if we aren't going to date maybe we could just have sex? Thinking of texting and asking him. What do you think? I say go for it... but be careful you're doing it for the good reason.. which is to have NSA sex... I have a feeling that you might fall for this guy .. I could be wrong though... If you ONLY want sex ... go for it..
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 Even if you ONLY want sex, wouldn't it be a lot nicer with a guy who at least had enough interest in you to get in touch after breaking a date? I mean, no offense, but it doesn't even sound like he's really dying to get into your pants. Sounds like a recipe for making yourself feel bad.
Author Kris30 Posted April 17, 2010 Author Posted April 17, 2010 I met this guy online and we never met irl (the date he broke). I am looking for just 1 night of nsa sex...
Engadget Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 I met this guy online and we never met irl (the date he broke). I am looking for just 1 night of nsa sex... Ask him if that's what you want, just be ready for rejection.
Lizzie60 Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 I met this guy online and we never met irl (the date he broke). I am looking for just 1 night of nsa sex... You never met him IRL... then just move on.. find another guy. Why stick to him? There are tons of men out there who would gladly have what you're proposing.. trust me..
sally4sara Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 Well, you met online and have not met him IRL yet? For all you know, this is just masturbation material for him. He gets off on planning to meet strange women but never follows through. Or any pics you've seen of him are not who he actually is so he isn't so compelled to meet IRL. You are revving up desire for someone who may not even exist as they have presented themselves to be. And yet here you are, still wanting sex with him. You originally wanted a date and sex. He removed one of those options. You still want the sex? What I'm trying to find out here, is why him? If you just want sex - couldn't it be with someone else who has more interest? At least enough interest in meeting you?
mortensorchid Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 All joking aside, why do you want to do this? Yes, there are tons of people out there who will meet someone online or in real life, have the one night stand, then move on. People say that they can take their lumps and be ok with it. But, we are really kidding ourselves, aren't we? We've all been hurt by ourselves or other people in the past whether we / they intended to or not, but we are adults now. We are responsible, we have respect for ourselves and others. Please don't do this, you will feel better about yourself in the long run.
Agent Thomas Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 I think this is hilarious. Mostly because females aren't expected to behave in such a manner.
tkgirl Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 Last week a guy broke a date with me and I haven't heard from him since. So now I'm thinking if we aren't going to date maybe we could just have sex? Thinking of texting and asking him. What do you think? seriously, you never even met this guy IRL.. what makes you think you want to have sex with him? that's crazy... go get yourself a good vibrator instead...
marsle85 Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 I've felt what you described before. Don't do it... if you're looking for fun, you can get it elsewhere, and save your pride. If you're looking for him to change his mind, he will have sex with you- but his mind won't change.
bac Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 I met this guy online and we never met irl (the date he broke). I am looking for just 1 night of nsa sex... It does not look like he broke up with you because you are hard to get. But, if you want to check if he wants NSA/or ONS, you should invite him to your place for a dinner for the first date. So, if he agrees, he wants a ONS. Most guys typically do not use direct language to describe what they want sexually. So, they call a ONS as a dinner at your place/his place. Also, they call sex as a great conversation. If they horny and crave for sex, they say 'I miss talking to you'. If you say to guys, who you do not know well, direct words such as ONS, NSA, horny, d..ck or other similar stuff, they will get afraid of you because it sounds sexually aggresive to them and they will run away even they want sex in general.
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