teeny Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 I think I have reached that point where I am ready to end two year relationship with my boyfriend. Not because I lost any interest, but because I feel like he is thinking about cheating on me, with a co-worker, if he hasnt already. My best friend wants to send him a message on facebook letting him know how i feel. Since I can't seem to tell him. About 3 weeks ago, I told my boyfriend I was going to move for school, without him, and he got really upset and it became really hard on me and figured we'd make it work. If we were to break up it requires me moving 3000 miles, (we live in cali, my family is in md.) At the time I suggested we break up my heart was just kinda numb and I was prepared to move, now that its been a few weeks and I find this out, I feel really crushed and I would love to just go back to that moment and stick with leaving.
ADF Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 You give enough detail about what you think may be going on between your BF and his co-worker to answer your question. What I can say is: breaking up with someone because they may (or may not) be thinking of cheating is horribly unfair. If you are going to punish someone, make it for what they've done, not for what they might (or might not) be thinking about. If you have reason to think he has cheated, that is a different story. but again, you provide no detials, so it is impossible to say.
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