Considering Moving

[lsmitty66]

So this is a long story...My boyfriend and I live in San Jose. I was born and raised here. He was born and raised in Wisconsin. He has applied for a job in Wisconsin and is getting further and further in the interview process. As he progresses through the interview process, I get nervous. I'm not nervous because I am completely turned off to moving, but because it will be the first time I have moved so far from my family. Also I have a teaching job here. He has told me that there will be a bigger commitment on his part if this comes to fruition so I am not concerned about that. I am just concerned about not finding a job, and being so far from my family. Is this normal?? Any advice from others who have done this??

[bluz73]

So this is a long story...My boyfriend and I live in San Jose. I was born and raised here. He was born and raised in Wisconsin. He has applied for a job in Wisconsin and is getting further and further in the interview process. As he progresses through the interview process, I get nervous. I'm not nervous because I am completely turned off to moving, but because it will be the first time I have moved so far from my family. Also I have a teaching job here. He has told me that there will be a bigger commitment on his part if this comes to fruition so I am not concerned about that. I am just concerned about not finding a job, and being so far from my family. Is this normal?? Any advice from others who have done this??

I have just recently moved and I know its tough, I am in the midst of a break up and dealing with leaving all my family behind, so I am having a hard time.

It will take someone less emotional to adjust easy, but its taken me 6 months to get used to the area, but I am a basket case at this point in my life, got alot of heartache.

I would do some research on the area and jobs and if it will suit your life style.

How long have you been dating is another factor? Any plans of marrying?