cfa Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 I am 26 years old and i have this boyfriend for more than a year. One day he called me on the phone telling me that he just fired his Personal Assistant (PA) and that he need a replacement. The conversation end up with the idea that i will give up my current work and i will work with him as a PA. Yeah, i worked with him after i made my resignation and surprisingly i found out that my boss/boyfriend was actually married. Hurt me so much!!! I thought working with him will help our relationship.I see him and her wife in the office with their baby.. i can't take it... he just told me to give him time to work things out and that i should hold on because he wants to have a future with me.. I love him but this is just too painful and so unfair for his wife... I know there's no room for this relationship.. i just need this out in my chest..
BlueeyedJonesy Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 I am 26 years old and i have this boyfriend for more than a year. One day he called me on the phone telling me that he just fired his Personal Assistant (PA) and that he need a replacement. The conversation end up with the idea that i will give up my current work and i will work with him as a PA. Yeah, i worked with him after i made my resignation and surprisingly i found out that my boss/boyfriend was actually married. Hurt me so much!!! I thought working with him will help our relationship.I see him and her wife in the office with their baby.. i can't take it... he just told me to give him time to work things out and that i should hold on because he wants to have a future with me.. I love him but this is just too painful and so unfair for his wife... I know there's no room for this relationship.. i just need this out in my chest.. I can't how painful this must feel...I have to say tho..if he has a baby and his wife comes to visit him at work things are probably going good for them (other than the fact that hes a lying cheat) he is more than likely going to string you along..please don't knowingly be the OW. Just save yourself the years of heartache and find a new job...this situation will only get worse...
bananalaffytaffy Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 Did this fool think that you could work for him and NOT find out he was married? Time to find yourself a new job.
whichwayisup Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 Dump him and find another job. DO NOT lower yourself to stay the OW in his life, even if he feeds you lines like "It's just a matter of time before I leave my wife...Blah blah blah.." Go read in the OW/OM section. It's good you know it's wrong and unfair to his wife. That keeps it real.. He isn't ever going to leave, even more so since he has baby. DO NOT BELIEVE A WORD OUT OF HIS MOUTH. He's lied to you, intentionally.
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