ImThinkingWTF Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 Ok, so I met this guy, he lives a few hours from me in another state, but I am moving there in 2 months. He came to my town, I spent 2 of the 3 nights he was here with him at his hotel. I went to his town the next weekend and he spent the day and night and next day with me. So, he texted me to ask if I made it home ok, and also added me and my sisters that he met on facebook. Heres the deal, after I initially met him and then went on a date...I went back home, I didnt hear from him at all until a week later when he was coming to my town. I mentioned that I dont really chit chat a lot on the phone unless its my sister or best friend and that im more of a talk to make plans kind of girl. I think he is the same way. Since its soooo early in the dating stage...I dont feel comfortable texing him all the time...I mean other than telling him about my day (which isnt very interesting) I dont have much to say. So how do I keep him interested until I can actually date him? I did text him last night just to see what he was up to and he asked me if I was in town...but, I dont want to be the one doing all the contacting either..(well, that was the 1st time i initiated contact) Also...if he wasnt interested would he have added me AND my sisters? Hes in his 30s...if that makes any difference. gosh, sorry for the rambling.
ADF Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 I am a little confused. It sounds like he is interested, and your move is only 2 months away? 2 months isn't a long time. Why do you think you might not be able to weather just a few weeks separation?
Author ImThinkingWTF Posted April 17, 2010 Author Posted April 17, 2010 Because I'm an idiot. We've been talking a lot and making plans for when I'm there. Umm I guess I'm just a silly girl that overanalyzes everything. So since my original post...its pretty clear that he's into me.
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