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If some women are into casual sex, how do you probe for it?


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A lot of women say that there are girls who are into casual sex. I know this for a fact; I've run into a few over the years, but it seems to be lucky chance running into them.

 

Point is, for the women who admit that there are girls who are into casual sex and are okay with that, how could you possibly probe for it without provoking the ire of those girls who think casual sex is sleazy or disgusting?

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It's not something you can go around probing for, most women who are open to having casual no strings attached sex also have to feel attraction to the guys they are going to have sex with. So it is not just about sexual availability but more so about the types of guys they find appealing. Women who aren't open to having casual sex will still feel aroused by men they find attractive they are just more reserved. It all still boils down to attraction.

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Well generally this happens when you two are at the bar or a club, things are getting flirty and you ask her to come back to your place or vice versa.

 

Personally, I don't have one night stands but you can usually TELL what girls are going to, just by how they act.

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It most likely depends on the size of your probe.

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Well generally this happens when you two are at the bar or a club, things are getting flirty and you ask her to come back to your place or vice versa.

 

Personally, I don't have one night stands but you can usually TELL what girls are going to, just by how they act.

 

how do they act? what gives them away?

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how do they act? what gives them away?

 

There's your problem; we don't act any differently and there is NOTHING to give us away. We are just normal (or not), intelligent (or not), attractive (or not) females.

 

We just like sex.

 

Stop looking for some secret society or hidden handshake to figure these things out. It doesn't exist. Well, except for those girls that go to resorts for spring break, but I am considerably older than that so I can't comment on those skanks.

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Most of the married women have told me directly. Single women have been more circumspect. Somehow, that doesn't surprise me ;)

 

OP, if you're 'into' casual sex, just be direct in the same way you are when approaching women for a date. Handle rejection the same way. The ladies who are like-minded and find you attractive will let you know in no uncertain terms. Good luck :)

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Right now, I'd go for some causual sex if I could find an attractive guy that was a good man, and was REALLY good in the sac and who we had mutual respect and frienship for. But that's a tall order.

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Right now, I'd go for some causual sex if I could find an attractive guy that was a good man, and was REALLY good in the sac and who we had mutual respect and frienship for. But that's a tall order.

 

very tall order .... i mean if we are going to have casual sex i most likely got to be madly in lust with you .... i am not sure many women have sex with any ol anybody, unless that is her still

 

but the code word is : blue clues....... lol

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very tall order .... i mean if we are going to have casual sex i most likely got to be madly in lust with you .... i am not sure many women have sex with any ol anybody, unless that is her still

 

but the code word is : blue clues....... lol

 

So what's the Safety Word? ;)

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So what's the Safety Word? ;)

 

we all know the safety word is : mail time

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If you're only into casual sex, who cares if you alienate the girls who aren't into it? You didn't want a relationship with them anyway, right? Just ask up-front, and if the girl isn't into it, she'll say so.

 

Imo the best strategy is to sign up for online dating - women often state quite clearly in their profile if they're up for casual sex. Although personally I'd be put off by a woman who sleeps around indiscriminately (I'd be worried about catching diseases).

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