insearchof Posted January 18, 2004 Share Posted January 18, 2004 ok..life was cool..goin good and all...then this girl broke up with her man...i didnt know her but i soon met her a little after that and we became the best of friends (or so she says)..we did everything together, i mean EVEYTHING and talked to eachother serveral times during the day EVERYDAY during the time they were broke up...we even talked bout dating eachother....we became so close (or so i thought) but now...about 5 days or so ago..she got back with her man...now its like i dont even exist....we havent seen or spoken to eachother in a week....its like we never even met...what should i do? Link to post Share on other sites
Kriz Posted January 18, 2004 Share Posted January 18, 2004 Go through the procedure I wrote down here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?postid=153937#post153937 OR You could just remind her of the good times you guys had. That means competing with her ex-ex. He has a head start though... Link to post Share on other sites
BlockHead Posted January 18, 2004 Share Posted January 18, 2004 This might seem harsh. You were a substitute boyfriend, and she doesn’t need you anymore. Cut your losses and avoid her like the plague. Don’t take it too hard. I let myself get fooled twice by a certain woman before I learned my lesson. Link to post Share on other sites
Kriz Posted January 18, 2004 Share Posted January 18, 2004 Don't listen to him, he gave his heart away for christmas! Literally! No, he's right. But you could still try, as long as you don't keep your hopes up too high. Link to post Share on other sites
Author insearchof Posted January 18, 2004 Author Share Posted January 18, 2004 well..that sucks to hear....i guess ill just stay clear of her and pretend i never met her Link to post Share on other sites
BlockHead Posted January 19, 2004 Share Posted January 19, 2004 insearchof i guess ill just stay clear of her and pretend i never met herBe polite, but not intimate. For example, you can limit conversations with her to just rituals like “hello, goodbye, the weather looks great,” etc. Don’t ask her about her feelings, and don’t tell her about your own. Here is an example of how I dealt with that certain woman. princess: Are you mad? BlockHead: Why would I be mad? princess: ………… I don’t think there are many women who are willing to admit that they are being manipulative. Link to post Share on other sites
Author insearchof Posted January 19, 2004 Author Share Posted January 19, 2004 well..it might just be better to quit all contact just so..if she does happen to break up with him..she wont come running back to me....cause i wont be there for her anymore cause i know how she is....i thought she was different...she even told me all she wanted for christmas from me was for me to promise to her that ill be her friend forever....she knew that if i was there for her she wouldnt have to stay home all the time....i guess i got played or somethin....she knew what she was doin.... Link to post Share on other sites
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