CrissyQ Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 (edited) Well yesturday OW of MM who is a regular where I work,confronted me she called me private hung up and called me ALOT more times again later that night asking if I was Fu***** her BF,I said who's your BF she says his name I laugh at her and tell her No I was not, ALOT of words were exchanged I told her hunny I owe you NO explination or apology you are not his W to be confronting me.She got furious and told me if I knew he was M,and if I did not tell her the truth she was going to call his W and give her my number. Sorry but this is crazy,I mean who the f*** does she think she is to have the nerve to call me and question me I owe her sh*t and that is exactly what I told her after the 20th time she called me. I personaly think OW has no right calling OOW if you even wanna call me that to MM,I dont think I am I just see him as a guy who pays for my company no relationship,no strings attached. Edited April 15, 2010 by CrissyQ OW had the nerve to call me!
bananalaffytaffy Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 This is quite confusing... The man in this scenario is married and has TWO mistresses? I can't see this ending any way but badly for everyone involved. I feel for his wife.
Disintegration Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 I could understand if it were the MM W calling you but his OW calling you? I guess she thought she was the only OW.
Author CrissyQ Posted April 15, 2010 Author Posted April 15, 2010 What I am saying is his OW has not right calling me,yes I have done things with him and we talk or met up once in awhile and yes I know he has a W and OW,but her his OW is nuts for calling me and threatening to tell and give his W my number.
Author CrissyQ Posted April 15, 2010 Author Posted April 15, 2010 Yeah Im sure she thought she was the only OW.
OWoman Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 I'm guessing there are no spellcheckers under this particular bridge...
Fallen Angel Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 I'm guessing there are no spellcheckers under this particular bridge... AAAAAAAAAAAhahahahaha ...there almost never are.
Author CrissyQ Posted April 16, 2010 Author Posted April 16, 2010 (edited) I'm guessing there are no spellcheckers under this particular bridge... Honey if you wanna talk about my spell check start a thread about it,both of you:p So back to the topic,OW is one crazy chick she called private again and I feel I owe her nothing she does not need to know anything about my R with her so called BF,now if it were his W on the other hand ok she has a right to call me,but OW has NO right calling me. Edited April 16, 2010 by CrissyQ
bananalaffytaffy Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 What is your intention with this MM anyway? It seems like you should be able to date lots of single men. I'm just curious what your attraction is to this man that belongs to someone else.
bentnotbroken Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 Honey if you wanna talk about my spell check start a thread about it,both of you:p So back to the topic,OW is one crazy chick she called private again and I feel I owe her nothing she does not need to know anything about my R with her so called BF,now if it were his W on the other hand ok she has a right to call me,but OW has NO right calling me. It makes no sense(how dumb do you have to be and still breath:eek:) that she is calling you, but she has as much right to do jacked up things as everyone else in this scenario. Rights don't seem to be a main thought of concern for you or MM. Respecting rights of another has to come from a place of respect, which appear to be lacking.
BlueeyedJonesy Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 What is your intention with this MM anyway? It seems like you should be able to date lots of single men. I'm just curious what your attraction is to this man that belongs to someone else. I'm pretty sure I remember OP talking about being an exotic dancer if so...... Money money money money.......M O N E Y!
BlueeyedJonesy Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 I just see him as a guy who pays for my company no relationship,no strings attached. So then why do you even care about her calling you? you sure as hell don't care that he has a W and probably children......unbelievable!
Author CrissyQ Posted April 16, 2010 Author Posted April 16, 2010 So then why do you even care about her calling you? you sure as hell don't care that he has a W and probably children......unbelievable! Yup I am a dancer,that is how I get my money. She is calling me all hours of the day,which I think is crazy because she is fighting over a man who does not belong to her,Im not fighting over him. You are missing my point,what I am saying is OW have NO RIGHT calling me because they get pissed off because they thought they were the only OW,this happens ALOT. If he was cheating with you,he can cheat on you;)
BlueeyedJonesy Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 no...I think you are missing mine. You cannot call yourself a dancer if you actually have relations with your customers outside of work..last time I checked thats called a prostitute. If you didn't want to get mixed up in the baby mama ow drama (which I highly doubt) then you wouldn't be doing what your doing...there are plenty of girls who do go to work at SC and do the job and thats that but when you start doing favors for money thats a whole different ballgame. WHAT DO YOU EXPECT?
John Who Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 Yup I am a dancer,that is how I get my money. She is calling me all hours of the day,which I think is crazy because she is fighting over a man who does not belong to her,Im not fighting over him. You are missing my point,what I am saying is OW have NO RIGHT calling me because they get pissed off because they thought they were the only OW,this happens ALOT. If he was cheating with you,he can cheat on you;) You're right she should not call you,she's apart of an A with a MM who has multiple OW. My guess is she did not know about you,obviously she thought she was the only one. This is not uncommon,I know many MM who have more than 1 OW,and her telling you she is going to snitch on you to his W is bullsh*t she needs to tell all or not at all. I do not think she'll tell W because she does not want him to get angry with her and possibly leave her.
Hazyhead Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 no...I think you are missing mine. You cannot call yourself a dancer if you actually have relations with your customers outside of work..last time I checked thats called a prostitute. If you didn't want to get mixed up in the baby mama ow drama (which I highly doubt) then you wouldn't be doing what your doing...there are plenty of girls who do go to work at SC and do the job and thats that but when you start doing favors for money thats a whole different ballgame. WHAT DO YOU EXPECT? Agreed! Good grief. I really shouldn't be laughing right now.
Author CrissyQ Posted April 16, 2010 Author Posted April 16, 2010 Agreed! Good grief. I really shouldn't be laughing right now. Hhhhmmmm,arent you or havent you been involved with a MM also, my dear lady please do not judge me worry about your own problems fix yourself then if you still feel the need to laugh do so;)
bananalaffytaffy Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 I just see him as a guy who pays for my company no relationship,no strings attached.Dear, if you are being paid for your services, you are NOT an OW, nor are you an OOW. YOu are simply someone who is being paid for her services. Is the other gal being paid for her services as well?
Author CrissyQ Posted April 16, 2010 Author Posted April 16, 2010 Dear, if you are being paid for your services, you are NOT an OW, nor are you an OOW. YOu are simply someone who is being paid for her services. Is the other gal being paid for her services as well? Honey I have said this before,that I do not consider myself a OW or OOW,regaurdless of what you wanna label me as still does not give some OW the right to call me and question my R with her MM,that is crazy. OW is a OW,she has been involved with him for over one year so she say's,still doesnt give her any right to call me,she's just an OW.
Confused Lady Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 Did you ever stop to consider since she's having an affair with him also, that maybe she just wants to talk to you about him? Just a thought....
bananalaffytaffy Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 Honey I have said this before,that I do not consider myself a OW or OOW,regaurdless of what you wanna label me as still does not give some OW the right to call me and question my R with her MM,that is crazy. OW is a OW,she has been involved with him for over one year so she say's,still doesnt give her any right to call me,she's just an OW.And this bothered you so much that you came here to post about it? Well, one thing I do know, both you and the OW have picked a real winner. Since you are so uninvolved, why don't you tell her to call the guy's wife instead of you?
BlueeyedJonesy Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 does not give some OW the right to call me and question my R with her MM,that is crazy.. No..performing sexual favors on MM for money and trying to call it a job is crazy. Crissy, there are women here who are in REAL relationships with men...not customers. Who actually come here for support and understanding..I think you posting stuff like this in the OW forum is the reason why people have such a judgemental mindset towards OW/OM. I'm not even an OW and I find it insulting.. they have forums out there for exotic dancers with drama..maybe you should look into it. Have some respect for yourself..you are better than this.
Author CrissyQ Posted April 17, 2010 Author Posted April 17, 2010 Ok lets change the scenerio what if I was not a dancer and I was some regular woman who was seeing a MM who happened to have a OW how would you people respond to my situation then? You guys are hypocrites,you are being harsh and ignoring my question because I am a dancer.
jthorne Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 Ok lets change the scenerio what if I was not a dancer and I was some regular woman who was seeing a MM who happened to have a OW how would you people respond to my situation then? You guys are hypocrites,you are being harsh and ignoring my question because I am a dancer. Um... What's the question? Should an OW call the OOW? An OOW that brags about being "company" to a married man with an unknowing wife at home? An OOW that brags about being "company" to a philanderer that is cheating with AT LEAST two women? Was that the question?
jwi71 Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 Ok lets change the scenerio what if I was not a dancer and I was some regular woman who was seeing a MM who happened to have a OW how would you people respond to my situation then? Being a dancer has nothing to do with it. Getting paid for "being alone" IS an issue. But not the issue you have brought to the table. You guys are hypocrites,you are being harsh and ignoring my question because I am a dancer. What question? All I have seen is some (ahem) "righteous indignation" at being contacted by one of his other OW...what question are you asking? What advice do you seek?
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