Dublin Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 I've been seeing my GF for a year and a half. During that time we've been pretty inseperable, she's over at my place or I'm over at hers very frequently. It's not perfect, we have our share of fights every so often, though. However, lately she's been acting strange and cold to me. About a month ago, she went to a party that I was not invited to, and did not come home until 8 or 9 am. Because of the unusual way she had been acting prior to this, i snooped in her phone and found some texts to and from her friend a week before saying that this guy at the party was interested in her, and it culminated that night in my gf saying she wanted to make out with him. Her friend was pushing him on her, trying to give her his phone number, etc. I confronted her about this, and she said it was just a crush, that nothing happened and that it meant nothing, which I believed. In the last month or so after that incident she remained cool towards me, and acting strangely around me. She recently started a new job and has not been staying with me as frequently (every night where she works the next morning), because the commute from her dad's place is 20 minutes shorter. She's been trying to make friends with her new co-workers, and has been going out drinking with them after work and on days she doesn't work. I am explicitly not invited. She's also been avoiding my calls and ignoring my texts (and i'm neither spamming her with them - frequency of about every couple hours or so - nor am I accusing her of anything in them, it's mostly been "hey what's up" or "are you okay? it's late" type texts) while she's out. I just found out a couple things, which I confronted her about: (1) that she's been going out without even telling me about it - some nights when she was "home", she would be ignoring my texts over AIM and such, turns out she was out. (2) a number of sites in her web history with titles like "Learn to act normal around your crush" and such, which were opened about two weeks after the party incident. I confronted her about these two things last night, and she almost immediately hung up on me. I called her back and she denied going out without saying anything (except one admission that she went out one night "for 30 minutes") got very angry, told me it was too late and that she had to sleep, and to "stop ****ing texting me". Thoughts? Questions? I'm trying to be as objective as possible here, but it's hard
Bleed Internal Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 it's over, bro. and she's probably cheating. sorry.
FryFish Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 She ****ed that guy at the party you were told not to go to. She is a cake eater. You need to vanish from her life as it will be easier on you in the end than actually knowing what she is actually up to. Dude, your relationship is over. Move on.
mark982 Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 quit texting her. just disappear, why give her any glory knowing your strung along.
learned2 love 2late Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 shes already drifted and IS cheating ................... GARANTEED TAKE IT FROM GUYS WHO ALREADY SEEN THESE TRAITS IN THE WOMAN THEY LOVED DUMP HER BEFORE SHE DUMPS U AND MOVE ON
phineas Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 You are her BF & your not allowed to spend time with her & her friends? seriously? My cheating STBXW pulled the same crap. Dump her. She is just using you. When she spends the night are you having sex? You didn't say but since you said she's cold probably not & she's just using you.
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