aroll32 Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 I dated a girl about 4 months ago and I thought she was amazing. The best girl I had ever been with. There wasn't one thing I disliked about her. She all of a sudden left without a reason (that I am aware). Now, we talk every now and then, once every week or so. I can't seem to get her completely out of my head though. We weren't in a committed relationship, she doesn't "do" relationships. She straight up told me she was just bad with them. I thought it was a pretty lame excuse, but I know she isn't into the whole commitment thing. Anyway, every now and then she pops into my head and it drives me crazy. Not her, the thoughts. I don't see why I still think about her. It was a long time ago and I've gotten over it, so why do I still have these thoughts? Could it be because I sensed her wanting to start something over the summer? The last time we saw each other face to face she said she wanted to stay friends and see what happens over the summer. Just recently she asked me if I'm going to be in town during these upcoming months. Maybe I'm just over thinking it. Wow, over thinking my thoughts. But I don't even see me wanting to see her in the summer. Hmm
Ella whispers Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 Maybe it's how she made you feel. There's a lot we can forget about people but you never forget the way they make you feel. Is that what you're missing?
Author aroll32 Posted April 15, 2010 Author Posted April 15, 2010 Well, yeah. I just miss her in general. The way she made me feel was great, but I don't miss that. I feel just as good as I did when she was around. Granted, it is a different feeling, but its just as good. I guess you could say I miss the way she made me feel, which I somewhat do, but it's something I've gotten over. Because other girls can make me feel that way too. So all in all, it's not how she made me feel, it's just her. I don't think there would be anything that could make me not enjoy her company. I guess I will just have to get past it. I had a similar experience a couple years ago, but I don't remember it being like this.
USMCHokie Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 I dated a girl about 4 months ago and I thought she was amazing. The best girl I had ever been with. There wasn't one thing I disliked about her. She all of a sudden left without a reason (that I am aware). Now, we talk every now and then, once every week or so. I can't seem to get her completely out of my head though. We weren't in a committed relationship, she doesn't "do" relationships. She straight up told me she was just bad with them. I thought it was a pretty lame excuse, but I know she isn't into the whole commitment thing. That's the problem right there. No wonder you can't get her out of your head...you're still talking to her every week!!! Stop talking to her, stop texting her, stop emailing her, stop calling her. She doesn't want a relationship with you, so she doesn't deserve you in her life at all. You have no one to blame but yourself for all of this.
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