Keslove Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 (edited) So I just got of an LTR/Engagement and have an event coming up in a few months that my ex-fiance was supposed to attend with me. Not actively looking to date anyone right now (rebound, serious, etc.), just looking for a female friend to attend with me. Anyway there is a cute female in another department at work whose humor is similar to my own. Yeah, I suppose it's somewhat of an excuse to get to know her better, if I do ask her. Company policy disallows inter-department romances and relationships with managers (so neither of these applies to us). It is possible that we may run into other employees attending the event.....which could possibly turn into workplace gossip that we are dating.....which I guess wouldn't be much of a problem if we are both okay with it and are confident we can put down such rumors. If we hit it off and it led to actually dating in the future, I suppose we figure that out down the road. Do I ask her directly? Do I have someone else in her department ask her? Or should I just find someone outside the workplace? Edited April 15, 2010 by Keslove
mixwell Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 I would say ask her yourself.. be a man.. Having someone ask for you is kind of highschoolish if you ask me.. i would ask her out directly but don't impose that is a a date but more or less a hang out. I would say treat the event as casual as the invite and kind of pry in a bit with flirting and see if she is receptive.. You have to start with baby steps and first get her to go, then flirt, then judge if she is interested.. if she is interested then proceed from there and gauge how her body language responds to your flirting.
Chochobong Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 (edited) Wrong thread Edited April 15, 2010 by Chochobong
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