a week after our break up they started texting, after 2 weeks, dated.

[karlo]

After 3 weeks they officially dated. after 1 week they started to text and went to a restaurant with all of their friends, its her courting friend's birthday. after 2 weeks her courting friend visited her at work.

They dated for the whole day, they went to a beach an hour away from our city. She said they just went there but didn't swim at all.

They started to text after our break up. you know what su*ks, i treated her friend as one my closest,(i became friends with her friends when I was with her.)That friend tried to court her many times in the past but wasn't able to do so because other guys came. but now he's really like courting my ex while my ex and i are still seeing each other... hay,.. i can't explain really well... it really hurts. help!

Edited April 15, 2010 by karlo
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[USMCHokie]

The ONLY person you should be concerned about after a breakup is yourself. Worrying about what your ex is doing will just prolong the pain and hinder your healing.

 

Stop seeing your ex.

[karlo]

what can i do to make her not text the other guy..? sh*t i am so dumb. she's hurting me very well and i can't even get mad at her... by the way she'll be in my graduation day. but we're still discussing if we'll just meet there or i'll pick her up at their house. she's not sure. and o, next week we'll go to the beach overnight her sister and some friends in her sister's wedding last January. i can't help it. i really miss her. i keep saying yes to her invites.

[USMCHokie]

what can i do to make her not text the other guy..? sh*t i am so dumb. she's hurting me very well and i can't even get mad at her... by the way she'll be in my graduation day. but we're still discussing if we'll just meet there or i'll pick her up at their house. she's not sure. and o, next week we'll go to the beach overnight her sister and some friends in her sister's wedding last January. i can't help it. i really miss her. i keep saying yes to her invites.

 

 

Then you have no right to complain. You're doing all of this to yourself, and frankly, you deserve it for letting this girl walk all over you. Grow a set, and let this girl go. You're broken up now. You have no right to tell her not to text this new guy. You really have no place in her life anymore. If you aren't willing to be her friend while she dates other guys, then don't be her friend.