Engadget Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 I guess it's a side effect of a terrible relationship and breakup, but as much as I want to meet someone and even get laid, I hold myself back from doing it. I get numbers, and I never call because I don't feel ready. I do want to meet someone, but I have no idea how long it's going to take to get out of this limbo post-breakup.
alphamale Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 I guess it's a side effect of a terrible relationship and breakup, but as much as I want to meet someone and even get laid, I hold myself back from doing it. I get numbers, and I never call because I don't feel ready. I do want to meet someone, but I have no idea how long it's going to take to get out of this limbo post-breakup. you just haven't gotten the number from the right girl yet
Rorschach Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 *has tried for months to get numbers unsuccessfully* what do you mean you got numbers but don't call? Dude I HATE you!!
Author Engadget Posted April 15, 2010 Author Posted April 15, 2010 you just haven't gotten the number from the right girl yet That's true, but I'm not sure I'll put the effort in if and when it happens. Frankly I don't know where to find my type anyway. Although it'll probably happen when I'm not looking for it, or expecting it. *has tried for months to get numbers unsuccessfully* what do you mean you got numbers but don't call? Dude I HATE you!! Haha, none of them were worth it. Attractive, but either crazy, dumb or possibly taken.
alphamale Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 That's true, but I'm not sure I'll put the effort in if and when it happens. hahaha when the right one comes along you'll be on her like white on rice
Rorschach Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 I'd settle for attractive crazy and dumb right now
Author Engadget Posted April 15, 2010 Author Posted April 15, 2010 hahaha when the right one comes along you'll be on her like white on rice In the past? Sure. However after the breakup I don't trust anyone, and I've turned down potential sex even, which is waaaay out of character for me.
EasyHeart Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 I guess it's a side effect of a terrible relationship and breakup, but as much as I want to meet someone and even get laid, I hold myself back from doing it. I get numbers, and I never call because I don't feel ready. I do want to meet someone, but I have no idea how long it's going to take to get out of this limbo post-breakup. This happens all the time. It means you are not ready for another relationship yet, and there is no shame in that. It's a sign of maturity that you don't want to jump on the first girl you meet. Focus on other things for a while, like work or hobbies. Maybe even give yourself a break period, like "I won't even think about dating for the next six months". This sort of feeling is a great opportunity for personal development. Heal now and you'll be a better person later.
TouchedByViolet Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 Take time for self improvement and to learn about yourself. Everyone goes through these phases. Sounds like when you find out what you want you won't have trouble getting it.
Author Engadget Posted April 15, 2010 Author Posted April 15, 2010 Yeah, sadly I need a new job since I lost mine and that's one thing that also holds me back from dating. Don't want to introduce myself as an unemployed student who may be moving back home post-breakup.
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