ussy Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 Why am i hoping so much that my ex texts me saying "Happy bday"???
Rearden Metal Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 Happy Bday ussy!!! You hope they text because it means they have thoughts, doubts, SOMETHING with regards to you. The problem is that the thoughts they have may not be what you wish them to be. So you are better off wishing they do not contact you. Stay strong on your Bday!
Nikki Sahagin Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 I had this problem last year. I wanted my ex to text. Well he did...and I burst into tears. Sometimes them not contacting you is actually better. I know hearing from him ruined my bday.
Odyssey Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 OP...you wonder if your ex still cares, right? ...i think it's better not knowing. If you do receive something, it'll just make you think about her even more. And that sucks! (it'll be like that time she phoned you about your street being full of cars). Anyway, forget her. It's your birthday. It's all about you today... take it easy man!
DustySaltus Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 Ussy, happy birthday buddy. You want her to call or text because you still love her and that's understandable. However, the best gift to yourself at this point is to spend today, YOUR DAY, thinking about you and what your needs and wants are OUTSIDE of her.
Author ussy Posted April 15, 2010 Author Posted April 15, 2010 Well guys..... she didnt call or text Her mom and sister did text me though, but it really has got to me that my ex didnt text me, i feel real down about it
skydiveaddict Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 Well guys..... she didnt call or text Her mom and sister did text me though, but it really has got to me that my ex didnt text me, i feel real down about it Be glad she didnt contact you. Time for you to move beyond her
hellopeople Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 Well, happy belated birthday! We're in the same boat pal. My b-day was yesterday too and I half hoped that I would get a text from my ex. Well, yesterday came and went - nothing. I felt horrible about it. Part of me really wanted to know that he was still thinking about me. But in all honesty, it's better that he didn't. Think about it, if they had sent you something, you could have interpreted it in a million different ways. But since they didn't there's only one way to interpret it - they've moved on, and now, so should you. Let this be your year!
Author ussy Posted April 16, 2010 Author Posted April 16, 2010 Well, happy belated birthday! We're in the same boat pal. My b-day was yesterday too and I half hoped that I would get a text from my ex. Well, yesterday came and went - nothing. I felt horrible about it. Part of me really wanted to know that he was still thinking about me. But in all honesty, it's better that he didn't. Think about it, if they had sent you something, you could have interpreted it in a million different ways. But since they didn't there's only one way to interpret it - they've moved on, and now, so should you. Let this be your year! Why does them moving on hurt you so much??? I feel terrible when i think about that
CaliGuy Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 Why am i hoping so much that my ex texts me saying "Happy bday"??? Hope your friends do. Not the people who walk away from you.
Author ussy Posted April 17, 2010 Author Posted April 17, 2010 Hope your friends do. Not the people who walk away from you. What an epic quote : ) Ill remember that always..... People in my life are more important than those who chose not to be anymore
Stephie Posted April 17, 2010 Posted April 17, 2010 Happy belated birthday!!! I know how you feel my ex's birthday was 2 weeks after he left me and guess what, I sent him a email the day before saying how hard he was to get over but I hope he has a wonderful birthday blah blah he responded "thank you very much" then I sent him a text the day of and told him happy birthday that I wasn't being weird but he knew how important birthdays and holidays are to me. He told me he was going out with some friends and that he knew that. My birthday is on the 25th and I wonder if he will do the same. I don't count on it but at the same time if he does I will know he was thinking about me that day!
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