kgyula Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 Hi there, I've met a girl last weekend (mutual friend). We've started talking and despite the fact that we didn't saw each other before we had a great time doing it and lots of common topics to talk about. She's that nice / cute type of girl that I generally prefer and I knew it from the first few minutes that she also liked me (touching my hand at the table several times when talking, constant smile, asking questions about me, taking my seat while away so that I "needed" to stay right next to her... and all those signs you know) She staid quite a while, but when her group of friends left, she also went home with them... Now the only mistake I consider I've made was not to ask for her number (partly my / the situation's fault) And here comes the interesting part... The next day I receive a friendly request from her on hi5. I've accepted it and wrote her back after some time asking about how is she doing etc and if she would give me her IM ID... She wrote back to me the next day quite a long text about how was the day and what are the news with her (details) + asking about me, and she also gave me her ID (mentioning however that she is rarely online) Now, knowing this and the fact that I also had/have a busy week I wrote her the next day another message, replying to what she wrote and asking for her phone number (I could have got it from a friend, but I wanted her to send it to me) This was Tuesday and I know that she checks the net rarely because of her work... but since then no reply Btw, she has a relationship but a friend of her told me that she may not be as happy with that and that she may be opened for new opportunities... and this is consistent with the way she behaved until my last message So, any ideas? because I have trouble getting the point? She seemed honest and not the type who is playing games so...
marsle85 Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 Why did you ask for her ID. You should have gone straight for the number. You're not REALLY looking to talk to her online, are you? Secondly, the girl is in a relationship. Bad relationship or not- you'll either end up as a rebound or an affair. You need to wait it out. Nothing good will come from this, as she's already in a relationship. Happy or not, she's still in the relationship... so it's not bad enough to end yet.
USMCHokie Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 This was Tuesday and I know that she checks the net rarely because of her work... but since then no reply Btw, she has a relationship but a friend of her told me that she may not be as happy with that and that she may be opened for new opportunities... and this is consistent with the way she behaved until my last message So, any ideas? because I have trouble getting the point? She seemed honest and not the type who is playing games so... This is an easy one. Stay away. If she's interested, she will make the effort to come to you after she leaves her relationship. You don't want to go there. Next.
Author kgyula Posted April 14, 2010 Author Posted April 14, 2010 You're not REALLY looking to talk to her online, are you? Happy or not, she's still in the relationship... so it's not bad enough to end yet. Well, of course not. I would wanted to ask her out... With or without a bf, a walk or a coffee doesn't mean she's commiting herself to anything The bad part is that I wouldn't prefer to wait...
USMCHokie Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 The bad part is that I wouldn't prefer to wait... And another easy solution: find another girl that's available.
CarrieT Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 With or without a bf, a walk or a coffee doesn't mean she's commiting herself to anything Of course it does. If she accepts and she is still in a relationship, than that means she is THINKING about cheating or getting involved with someone else without being completely open and honest with her current BF. And if she will do it to him, then she could do it to you? Do you really want a relationship with someone who will do that to another person? Stay Away From Her.
Author kgyula Posted April 15, 2010 Author Posted April 15, 2010 Of course it does. If she accepts and she is still in a relationship, than that means she is THINKING about cheating or getting involved with someone else without being completely open and honest with her current BF. And if she will do it to him, then she could do it to you? Do you really want a relationship with someone who will do that to another person? Stay Away From Her. actually I must say that you are right... and from this point of view she has a good point... Well, actually all of you guys say that I should leave her alone (no messages, emails etc) and if she is interested, we may have a chance after she will get single
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