rivermagic Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 Well...It has been two weeks since my boyfriend and I broke up. I am starting to loose hope in us getting back together. I have not called him, and he has not called me. He stopped in once last week to give me something important that he borrowed, and promised he would come and get his things from my house. He never did. Could this be hope that he is on his way back...How long should I wait to contact him? And why would he leave his stuff here. It is important things. Like stuff that is expensive, PS3 and weight training things.
Djades Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 Everyone is different but if he's left these expensive things at your house I'm guessing it's hard for him to see you right now. I recently broke up with my boyfriend and I think part of our getting back together is that instead of crying about it all the time, I tried to accept it and be positive, I think in doing so he was reminded of the me who wasn't pissed off when we were fighting, but the actual me, if that makes any sense. Either way you might want to brace yourself for the possibility you might not get back together, try to push through this either way, and try not to let the hope that you'll get back together consume you. If you do call him I wouldn't mention getting back together, or unhappy things. Try to just be the best form of yourself, the person he fell for.
kinglebron23 Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 Please add more to the story. Was it a "time apart" or actually a breaking up. Was it mutual?
Author rivermagic Posted April 14, 2010 Author Posted April 14, 2010 We had got into an argument. I am pregnant so my hormones are alittle off. I ended up saying can you arrange to get the rest of the things out. He said he would come get them after he gets in from fishing. He also said he only got back with me the last time we broke up, because of the baby. He tried to make things work according to him. No one actually said we are done. I think he might have decided that by not contacting me, and blocking me from msn.
Agent Thomas Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 Sounds cold, believe me I know it does, but usually once you're broken up once, you're broken up forever, no matter how many times you get back together. It's still early, but it's never too early to get a head start on letting go of the hope you're going to get back together, and instead start working on yourself again and recompiling and reorganizing your life and interests.
Author rivermagic Posted April 14, 2010 Author Posted April 14, 2010 So he just showed up today. He explained to me why he has not been here to get his things. Told me he has not been around, and has been working everyday. Then he told me that this weekend he was going to get his mom to pick up his things for him. I told him I was not going to be around. He then asked where I was going. How I have been. And what I have been up too. He was very friendly this time.I feel like he is gone...What is my next step in recovering?
Agent Thomas Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 Your next step in recovering is getting him his stuff and cutting him off completely. Even changing your number if that will provide you with the closure. This is over one way or another...
Author rivermagic Posted April 14, 2010 Author Posted April 14, 2010 If i want him back should I write him, and what should I say?
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