Dexter Morgan Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 He belittles the efforts to save nope, never have I done that. Nice try. I have said time and time with regards to my stance that I will never best or look down upon anyone that decides to stay. Everyone has to choose what they think is right for them, even if I think there is something out there better for them...just my opinion.
Dexter Morgan Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 CCL and Bent For what its worth, I can see what Bent and Dexter are saying. I do think its kind of insulting to say that the BS that stays is stupid Only one problem, I never said that, and never will. That was something she just pulled out of thin air. Just because I think a better life awaits someone after an affair, doesn't mean they are stupid for staying. I wish them all the best of luck.
Author confusedinkansas Posted April 20, 2010 Author Posted April 20, 2010 for me, of course I'm saying that. I don't want a life with a cheater. . Question for ya. Do you believe people have the capability TO change & some actually DO change?
Dexter Morgan Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 Question for ya. Do you believe people have the capability TO change & some actually DO change? anything is possible, but I think cheaters rarely change and I'm not going to take the chance that someone is in that small minority. I also think that someone can make the decision to never actually cheat again so as to not lose their family, lifestyle, familiar situation...whatever. But that inside they still would like to be boning someone other people. I simply am not going to settle for that. Thats me. If others think their cheaters have changed and decide to stay, I wish them the best.
Author confusedinkansas Posted April 20, 2010 Author Posted April 20, 2010 anything is possible, but I think cheaters rarely change and I'm not going to take the chance that someone is in that small minority. I also think that someone can make the decision to never actually cheat again so as to not lose their family, lifestyle, familiar situation...whatever. But that inside they still would like to be boning someone other people. I simply am not going to settle for that. Thats me. If others think their cheaters have changed and decide to stay, I wish them the best. Fair enough. I was just curious- Thanks.
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