kellers4 Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 I have posted on this before, but today I really feel like I am cracking up. My last contact with my bf was on Friday, he has a lot of issues with an exwife and children going on and was quite thoughtless to me the week before. I ended up having a few glasses of wine and when I spoke to him I dont really recall what I said to him. I spoke to my sister shortly afterwards and replayed the call and she didnt pick up any kind of a row, more that I was telling him to stand up for himself and that kind of thing. Its now 5 days later and he wont take my call, I texted him annoyed over the weekend but now I am just texting out of concern yet he still wont even pick up or reply to the texts. I feel so in Limbo now , really in a mess, how can he be so cruel.
LisaUk Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 To not even break up with someone and to just disappear is a terrible thing to do to someone, unless there has been physical abuse and the need to move into a safe house there is just no justification for not even saying it's over. Unfortunately I have heard of this happening to a friend of mine. It's cowardly, pure and simple. My advice to you is to get your head wrapped around the dispicable way he has treated you, text him and tell him "hey, if you wanted to break up you could have shown common decency and told me, don't contact me again" and take back your power. Then every time you think about him, remember who he really is, a person capable of THIS! That is not someone you want in your life, you can do better, much better.
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