xoxo88 Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 I think luck in general is pure luck in a certain amount, because there are things you can't control, that just happen to you. But you are responsible for most of the things that happen to you. You are responsible because you are the one who makes choices, who handles hard times, who fixes whatever went wrong. I think it goes the same with love. You know... s**t happens. That's fine, everybody goes through rough times at some point. They learn from their mistakes and get it right next time. But when you constantly get in deep s**t there is probably something you are doing wrong. So what are the mistakes of those who call themselves unlucky in love in general? There must be something like poor choices, fear of ending up alone and choosing whoever comes their way, stupid infatuation, etc. If you have any idea of why this happens or know any good article or book on this topic i would be very grateful .
gypsy_nicky Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 personality problems is the first thing that comes to mind.
Pyro Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 Alot, or most of it boils down to attitude. I know this one girl on FB (why she is still on my friends list I have no idea why) who whines and cries on a daily basis about spending her weekends at home and no one ever calling her, all guys being liars.....etc. She isn't helping her cause with her attitude. Once you start having a better attitude on life, people will see it and will attract to you. I am speaking from past and present experience.
Pedigree Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 So what are the mistakes of those who call themselves unlucky in love in general? Speaking from my experience: 1. Not being comfortable with themselves 2. Not taking enough chances 3. Not knowing the technical aspects (Body language, signals etc.) 4. Getting emotionally invested too early ("I have to have her") I've overcame 1, I'm pretty good at 3, still working at 4 and 2.
Jambalaya Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 No idea. i was single for 7 years and never had a problem with it. I had sex, had fun, I wasn't looking for love. Maybe that's it. And surely everyone is unlucky in love in the sense that everyone has had failed relationships in their past? It depends on your perception really. You can be lucky for years and then be unlucky at the end of a relationship.
whosleonard Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 All i can suggest is be true when you are together. Whenever you're on a date with a girl, don't do acting. If you know what I mean, being true or showing the real you. Whenever the girl doesn't like you on what you are, don't push it further cause all girls have have different impression on you. I believe that she/he will come near when you are not searching for love. Just be patient. Good luck!
Fouts Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 It's usually about unrealistic expectations. People with little or something different to offer may make an initial connection with someone, but when the relationship moves into a more serious stage, the other half sees the situation for what it is and realizes it's not going to work long term.
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