executioner87 Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 So I met this guy online through a game that we play together. We had long talks, did many things together in game and eventually we fell in love with each other. Our first meeting will be in June this year. However, there is a nagging suspicion inside of me that I can't get rid of. There is another girl, an older woman to be exact, that he talks to almost every night, even more than me. I asked about it before and it seems like they are on voice chat just about every night. He reassured me that there was absolutely nothing between them and that she is just a friend. I accepted that but then there is this tiny part of me that wonders what can they talk about everyday, and talk even more then what he does with me. Also just the other night, I knew he was online but he said he was busy and I saw him on voice chat with that girl. Recently we had a huge fight where we didn't talk for about a week but after that, we patched up. Since then, however, it felt like he was acting more distant and wasn't quite the same as before. I'm not sure if this chalks up to me being over suspicious or these worries were well justified by his actions. He's going back to study this year and he voiced his concerns as we would not be able to spend as much time together online as we do now. I thought about it and reassured him that I want to at least give this a try and he told me he thinks he wants to try it too. So, this acting distant thing, is there a nice way to go about asking him instead of turning it into another fight? Part of me is afraid that he's just stringing me along till he meets someone better in school and drop me...
Deeblondie82 Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 I understand what you are saying. I would just express how it makes you feel. That him talkin to her everynight is bothering u. That your not asking him to stop what he is doing just see where you are comming from. Its like if u were talking to someone more then him how would that make him feel.
TaraMaiden Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 You're making far too much of this. First of all, I take issue with the statement that you fell in love. You haven't even met yet....! You're being over-possessive. people on line talk to different people all the time. if it bothers you this much - and you haven't even met yet - how much more are you going to let it bother you, once you do meet? You have to get a grip, because you are way over-thinking this.
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