romer Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 My ex and I split up in late February, and not two weeks later he is into another relationship, or at least that is what SHE has on her FB status. She posted pics of them on spring break on the beach. My sister requested her as a friend and she accepted. The next day she deleted her, and I have no doubt it was my ex that made her. Also she changed her profile pic to just herself instead of him and her together. A friend told me today that the entire spring break album is deleted. I don't know what to make of this? Is he trying to protect my feelings?
Fouts Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 Why are you stalking him on FB? If he wants to contact you, he will. Then you'll have the opportunity to ask him those questions.
Author romer Posted April 14, 2010 Author Posted April 14, 2010 I haven't stalked him, I am getting secondhand info. I won't allow myself to look. It's too painful. I'm trying to move on, have told my friends this, but some feel the need to check things out and let me know. I know that if he wants to he will call or text. I am just wondering why all of that has happened.
This Hurts Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 To answer your question, he may be protecting your feelings, or what they had may be over. That's not important, though, because you're supposed to be focusing on yourself and your recovery; from both the loss of your *sshole ex (cause he IS an *sshole), and the death of your mother. Please, take a break from Facebook. This is just feeding your depression, and you really don't need that right now.
Toki Posted April 14, 2010 Posted April 14, 2010 I hurt myself today To see if I still feel I focus on the pain The only thing that's real The needle tears a hole The old familiar sting Try to kill it all away But I remember everything Stop trying to see what you're ex is doing, and really, really focus on why you're destroying yourself on something that was obviously not meant to be.
Author romer Posted April 14, 2010 Author Posted April 14, 2010 Thanks. I honestly have not looked at his or her FB page since the first night I saw the pictures. I can't handle it. (This Hurts) - you give excellent advice. I'm glad you found this thread. I'm sorry for what you are having to go through also. (Toki) - so true. I am making a positive effort to move forward. I was just a little confused about the FB thing...
Author romer Posted April 16, 2010 Author Posted April 16, 2010 I looked today. I feel sick to my stomach...I regret it. I am pathetic.
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