TooMuchPride Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 (edited) So Last Night about 2 o clock in the MORNING as im fast asleep i recieve a random text from my ex (who i still want to be with) , what reasoons would he have for that? the text only asked if i was asleep but we broke up a month and a half ago n havent really texted since....it was RANDOM..we recently got back itno contact and are now "friends"...so not completey far fetched but is there a reaosn y hed text at 2 , if we dont text ? Edited April 13, 2010 by TooMuchPride
2sunny Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 what did the text say? is is he/she prone to drinking?
CollectiveVelvet Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 what did the text say? is is he/she prone to drinking? That was my feeling as well... drunk-texting. I sounds like a moment of weakness text to me. I would hold off and not respond. See if another text is to follow.
Author TooMuchPride Posted April 13, 2010 Author Posted April 13, 2010 no he doesnt drink , and all it said was "sleeping?" and i stpidly responded...we we only talk through facebook and he is barely on these days , but he make sures to interact with me Somehow daily , the day b4 he texted me but i told i wasb busy and that was teh first he texte din months then last night he texted again
2sunny Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 he's an ex for a reason. any time or energy spent on him is distracting you from moving forward. block him, his number, any contact means... this allows you to clear mental and emotional room for a new guy who will value you enough to make an effort. most texts late at night are just to see if you may be agreeable to a booty call... just saying. otherwise he'd be making attempts during the day like most normal friends we have in life.
Author TooMuchPride Posted April 13, 2010 Author Posted April 13, 2010 but where in different countries atm , but thank for your advice
CollectiveVelvet Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 no he doesnt drink , and all it said was "sleeping?" and i stpidly responded...we we only talk through facebook and he is barely on these days , but he make sures to interact with me Somehow daily , the day b4 he texted me but i told i wasb busy and that was teh first he texte din months then last night he texted again What is the question you are actually trying to get answered? Sounds like you guys have kept established contact so why would a text be a surprise?
Author TooMuchPride Posted April 13, 2010 Author Posted April 13, 2010 (edited) ok let me try keep it short i ended it ent nc 3 weeks missed him , wanted him back , he is dealing with someone else(not a relationship as yet) , i still wanna fix it but by a different approach cause asking him lead to him rejecting me , and last week thru fb we decided to be friends , but he told me he is over me , so i just wanna kno if textin at 2 am saying "sleeping?" n then syain "he was lookin at my pics n felt weird so he texted" means anything more? cause im hoping...he is starting to regret rejecting me but idk(been 1 n half motnhs since we ended) Edited April 13, 2010 by TooMuchPride
CollectiveVelvet Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 ok let me try keep it short i ended it ent nc 3 weeks missed him , wanted him back , he is dealing with someone else(not a relationship as yet) , i still wanna fix it but by a different approach cause asking him lead to him rejecting me , and last week thru fb we decided to be friends , but he told me he is over me , so i just wanna kno if textin at 2 am saying "sleeping?" n then syain "he was lookin at my pics n felt weird so he texted" means anything more? cause im hoping...he is starting to regret rejecting me but idk(been 1 n half motnhs since we ended) I would say these are not indicators that he wants a relationship with you. Look up NC here and see if it is of interest to you. Being friends does not typically work if either of you have romantic feelings left.
D-Lish Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 You'd be much better off not responding to him and cutting off all contact. If he's entertaining the idea of being with someone else- he should lose the priviledge of being able to be friends with you. If you truly want him back, don't be his friend, and don't respond to him. Go full n/c without an explanation, and let the n/c run it's course for a while. He can't miss you if you're available to him. At this point in time he's pursuing another relationship AND keeping you on the hook. Don't allow this. Staying in contact with him gives him the message that you are okay with what he is doing- and surely, you can't be?! It's amazing what can happen when you stop being predictable, suddenly you become much more desirable.
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