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So after 3 months apart, she's officially dating someone now


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It doesn't really surprise me, but the fact that I kept telling her I knew she was going to and she continued to lie to my face hurts. Although I should be used to that, since lying was her thing almost to the point of a disorder.

 

Sad I guess that it represents an "official" end, although it was over regardless.

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When they say he's just a friend, he's not. I know how it feels my ex fiancé strted to date a week after a 3 year relationship it sucks but it's life you can't compete with something knew I doubt it will last but who cares keep your head high and go back to permanent nc

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When they say he's just a friend, he's not.

 

 

I have issues with statements like this. Ominous, far reaching statements that were birthed out of a personal situation(s), and also birthed from a jaded individual and their negativity. I have many female friends who are just friends, and I know many females who have guys who are just friends. This logic is just full of more holes than all the city streets of New York City. This type of statement is about the same as saying all white people can't jump, or all asian people are good at math, etc.

 

But to the original topic creator... you shouldn't have been talking to her after you two broke up. It's been three months, you shouldn't know she is dating someone else.

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Want to hear the best part? When explaining why they're dating, she said "It was an accident. I was drunk and mad at you so I did it out of spite."

 

Ever met anyone who accidentally dated? Bwahahaha.

 

NC begins when she gets her own apartment. This is just funny now.

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Oh, you two live together? I guess that is a valid justification for why you are still in contact then

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I have issues with statements like this. Ominous, far reaching statements that were birthed out of a personal situation(s), and also birthed from a jaded individual and their negativity. I have many female friends who are just friends, and I know many females who have guys who are just friends. This logic is just full of more holes than all the city streets of New York City. This type of statement is about the same as saying all white people can't jump, or all asian people are good at math, etc.

 

But to the original topic creator... you shouldn't have been talking to her after you two broke up. It's been three months, you shouldn't know she is dating someone else.

 

Um your way over analyzing what I said. Look 99% of the time when you break up with someone and a new friend of the opposite sex pops up and they tell you it's jsut a friend, It's NOT.

 

"whose Jim I saw you just added him to facebook?

"Oh he's just a friend, met him at starbucks last week"

" a week later jim and your ex are in a relationship"

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Oh, you two live together? I guess that is a valid justification for why you are still in contact then

 

Yeah, it's the ONLY reason I still talk to her. She doesn't stay here much anymore, but she's paying the bills and we have a couple of cats, which sadly I can't take with me when I move.

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