kellers4 Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 I have been seeing a guy for 6 months. We are/where quite close and would have saw each other quite a lot during this time, we both have children and had met them etc. Everything was going really well until about a week ago. He is just out of a marraige which ended with infidelity and I have always been there right from the start for him when I felt even at times God is this a bit much. He behaved in a very thoughtless way towards me and my daughter and I cancelled a day out we had with the kids. He was clueless to what he had done wrong and I text him all the things that had upset me and through the week he was very off with me. I found out then on friday he was having a lot of isssues with his fanily and that was the reason he was off so I called him. My birthday had passed in that week and although he had known the date with everything going on he forgot, This irated me and I ended up having a few glasses of wine and I cant really remember the call. I know that It wasnt that bad because I spoke to my sister after and would have told her, we think the jist of it was that he should stand up for himself and that I called him out of concern. He will not answer my calls or texts and is completely ignoring me. Surely in a relationship you should be able to speak your mind, it is so upsetting to think I loved this guy and all he can do is ignore me, it is making me feel so worthless, any advice
ReadyforLove Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 First, I don't think any kind of important conversations/disagreements should be discussed via text messages. But that is the past and what can you do? At this time, since you can't remember your last verbal conversation with him, it's best to just wait it out. Give him time and space to deal with his family/personal issues and I am sure he will contact you when he is ready. Repeatedly calling and texting him may just push him further away.
Author kellers4 Posted April 13, 2010 Author Posted April 13, 2010 First, I don't think any kind of important conversations/disagreements should be discussed via text messages. But that is the past and what can you do? At this time, since you can't remember your last verbal conversation with him, it's best to just wait it out. Give him time and space to deal with his family/personal issues and I am sure he will contact you when he is ready. Repeatedly calling and texting him may just push him further away. thanks its just so hurtful to be ignored when you where always there, I just would like even a respose
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