sorryeyes Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 I will try to make this short but I was in a relationship for 4 1/2 years and my bf decided it wouldnt work anymore actually he wanted to date this new girl he met. He said he is moving on..My question is since he is dating someone new Does this mean all his feelings for me are lost and he dont care about me at all? Is he using her to cover the pain of a lost failed relationship? I am so confused Help!
prayingshecomesback Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 classic Grass is Greener Syndrome. The hardest of all to get through. Hang in there... Let him do his thing. Go NC and stay strong. Let him see that the grass is not greener. I feel for you.
Author sorryeyes Posted April 13, 2010 Author Posted April 13, 2010 classic Grass is Greener Syndrome. The hardest of all to get through. Hang in there... Let him do his thing. Go NC and stay strong. Let him see that the grass is not greener. I feel for you. what if that takes months or even a year? I hate this its not fair Did his feelings for me disappear all together? He wont speak to me he cut all contact off
Agent Thomas Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 Most likely he emotionally detached long ago and just finally broke up with you. Chances are, he is indeed moved on deep down. Or at least he needs time to breath and try something new. Your best bet is to go complete NC and go on some casual dates to meet other people and get your mind off him, and to see that he isn't your world, but rather just a guy in the world.
ADF Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 This man left you for another woman after almost five years and lied about it. Why do you want him back?
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