TooMuchPride Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 I Find Myself in tears for no apparent reason... Its been about a month and a half since my ex and I broke up. we were together for 7 months (long enough for real feelinsg, not long enough for stability)I still have feelins for him even though i dumped him, after we broke up he stopped chasing me for the first time ,3 weeks passed , nothing , so i called him, made a couple mistakes..but a couple days ago i decided to tell him i agreed we should be over and lets be friends (its long distance so through facebook)this was after trying to get back with him 3 weeks prior and him telling me he started seeing someone else shortly after we broke up and he didn't want to "hurt" her , ill be home in about a month he doenst know though. we spoke through inbox and he made me add him although i didnt want too cause i thought it would hurt me to see him flirt(it does but its helping me get over it a little more than i thought , he is still seeing her but hasn't commited to her cause he is apparently messing around with other people and enjoying being single and idk how deep they are...but he talks to me when ever he's online (most times) n has initiated most covos since we started talking , he texted me today but i told hm i was in class.i want to get back with him but i cant tell if he misses me and hiding it or really fell for the girl and jus playing with me , I hate seeing their convos on facebook...but i cant tell him i still have feelings for him for fear of rejection , do you think there is still a chance? anyway i can get him to tell me if he still has feelings for me? is he actually beggining to miss me? what is his point of texting ? and why is he trying to keep me close?
aussieguy Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 If you were the one to do the breaking up, its up to you to fight for him back. If you honestly want to be with him then tell him how you feel, theres a big chance he will say no but i guess its better to try then to give up. And live with knowing you didnt try.
2sunny Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 delete him now. he's a player and would do nothing but hurt you further if you stay in contact. to him, you are looking desperate and pathetic. that is never a good thing.
cdt76 Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 You only want to be "friends" because you feel guilty and you still have feelings for him and you bailed instead of working them. If you want him back you have to go get him. Be honest with both yourself and him and stop the crap mixed signals.
Author TooMuchPride Posted April 13, 2010 Author Posted April 13, 2010 got it all wrong..lol i begge dhim back about a month ago and he said no cause he likes someone else...i wanna be friends cause i want him but he doesnt want me..
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