385 Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 Don't do the foreplay/lead us on and it won't be a problem. If you do something suggestive, such as gliding your hand across my package, but then we don't end up having sex, then you ARE a tease.
threebyfate Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 Not if she swallows Don't be spreading false rumours about getting pregnant from swallowing. Considering the state of the Internet, you never know who might believe you! I think the flooding of internet porn is ruining sex for people. It isn't special anymore. The young guys watching this rubbish think that is how women are supposed to act and that is where the entitlement comes from. It really is a shame.I think it's always been a case of sex being special for some and nothing but an itch for others, regardless of porn. But porn creates caricatures of women. If someone is moaning that loud and that stupidly, she's faking it.
JustJoe Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 Very true, TBF, fluttering eyelashes, a flushed cheek and chest, hard nipples and body/vag twitches mean much more than screams of "passion". Plus the look in the eyes of an orgasmic woman is deeper than the ocean.
Jersey Shortie Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 I agree with you very much on this. It is amazing how many men expect blow jobs from women with little to no effort and don't even return the favour. I would also like to add that many men expect a lot of sexual things from women. They see a woman in a porno movie get done up the butt and then take a big load right in the mouth and they think that is something that all women should do! There is definitely some sense of entitlement in people these days. Agree with this and the OP. As a woman that dates men, there is a certain level of sexual entitlement out there and I do think sadly that there is a heavy porn influence on guys today and it's reflected on how men treat and view women and their expectations of sex. I don't think the OP is saying that she doesn't enjoy oral or that oral isn't fun and sexy. I think she is saying that there is a certain attitude men have about sex today. I think alot of younger girls try to pleaes guys and make them happy and try to live up to a fake standard that might not even really bring them pleasure. I also think the word "tease" is used as a control word. If he can call her a name and make her feel bad for his OWN body, then he has the power right? And then he gets the satisfaction and can be on his way. I miss the early ninties before the interent caught on! I was really young then but I know it wasn't like today. Men today are more interested in acting out some porno scene then they are learning about a real woman and what she likes.
phineas Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 I think the flooding of internet porn is ruining sex for people. It isn't special anymore. The young guys watching this rubbish think that is how women are supposed to act and that is where the entitlement comes from. It really is a shame. I agree with profesional porn. I can't imagine a regular chick WANTING to gag herself on salomi & then having half a gallon of salty creme injected into her stomach, nose, eyes ect. however there are THOUSANDS upon THOUSANDS of AMATURE internet porn videos out there with women enthusiastically giving BJ's because they like to. highschool & college kids trading BJ video's of them & their GF's on their cell phones ect. My STBXW sucked me good & well for 7 yrs because she liked doing it. A little too much sadly. Hence why she is my STBXW. LOL! I returned the favor wholeheartedly because I enjoyed doing it also.
phineas Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 If someone is moaning that loud and that stupidly, she's faking it. For Porn yes. For real life? I've had GF's where I HAD to close the windows before sex.
Engadget Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 Agree with this and the OP. As a woman that dates men, there is a certain level of sexual entitlement out there and I do think sadly that there is a heavy porn influence on guys today and it's reflected on how men treat and view women and their expectations of sex. I don't think the OP is saying that she doesn't enjoy oral or that oral isn't fun and sexy. I think she is saying that there is a certain attitude men have about sex today. I think alot of younger girls try to pleaes guys and make them happy and try to live up to a fake standard that might not even really bring them pleasure. I also think the word "tease" is used as a control word. If he can call her a name and make her feel bad for his OWN body, then he has the power right? And then he gets the satisfaction and can be on his way. I miss the early ninties before the interent caught on! I was really young then but I know it wasn't like today. Men today are more interested in acting out some porno scene then they are learning about a real woman and what she likes. I don't know who you hang around, but the hangup on porn and the belief that every guy treats women like he sees in porn is an utter fallacy.
lino Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 Seems guys are being told more and more what they should like and what they're entitled to. How about letting a bloke decide what he wants and is entitled to? If you don't like his way of thinking then leave him be... not hard! I don't know who you hang around, but the hangup on porn and the belief that every guy treats women like he sees in porn is an utter fallacy. mate the more of her posts I read, the more it makes me think that she doesn't actually hang around anyone at all.
Engadget Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 Seems guys are being told more and more what they should like and what they're entitled to. How about letting a bloke decide what he wants and is entitled to? If you don't like his way of thinking then leave him be... not hard! mate the more of her posts I read, the more it makes me think that she doesn't actually hang around anyone at all. Yeah I'm thinking the same. I forget the story but she must have had a relative/friend/boyfriend that was a porn addict, and now sees all men as porn addicts. For most people porn is a healthy outlet. I'm not a fan of being a man-whore, so I watch a little porn, take care of my needs and thus don't always need to run around with different women. Do some men abuse it? Sure, but she seems to think we ALL do.
lino Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 I can perfectly understand someone being against porn, everyone is entitled to their opinion about something. However, to constantly say the same thing over and over and over and over... and over and over and over and over, etc all the damn time is well beyond having an opinion!!! Surely there are much better things to do with your time. Life's too f*cken short!
Engadget Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 I can perfectly understand someone being against porn, everyone is entitled to their opinion about something. However, to constantly say the same thing over and over and over and over... and over and over and over and over, etc all the damn time is well beyond having an opinion!!! Surely there are much better things to do with your time. Life's too f*cken short! It's like complaining about women reading those Cosmopolitan magazines, which tell you how to "please your man" and push them to buy certain makeup and look a certain way.
phineas Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 I can perfectly understand someone being against porn, everyone is entitled to their opinion about something. However, to constantly say the same thing over and over and over and over... and over and over and over and over, etc all the damn time is well beyond having an opinion!!! Surely there are much better things to do with your time. Life's too f*cken short! You are just saying that because your addicted to porn. LOL!
Rorschach Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 You are just saying that because your addicted to porn. LOL! The only time I use porn while in a relationship is when I'm feeling really really lazy and don't want to put in the effort to 'warm her up' haha Sometimes I just want to be done in 3-5 minutes >_>
lino Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 (edited) It's like complaining about women reading those Cosmopolitan magazines, which tell you how to "please your man" and push them to buy certain makeup and look a certain way. Yeah I think she's mentioned that before too if I'm not mistaken! You are just saying that because your addicted to porn. LOL! I'll get back to you in a couple of minutes Edited April 13, 2010 by lino left something out
Jersey Shortie Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 No need to get on my case guys. I've said nothing different that a few women didn't already say. If you truly believe someone is entitled their opinion, then you shouldn't have issue with mine. Whether you want to admit it or not, there is alot of porn out there and it's increased ten fold since the 90s. The average age that boys view porn is 11. If you don't think these boys at this age aren't being influenced and growing up to be men that have formed opinions on women, you are only lying to yourselves. It's really easy for you guys to sit there and say porn is great and how it keeps you from cheating. But as a woman, it sucks to see how degrading porn can be to women and apparently one of the things holding your guy back from cheating on you is porn. It's all great for you guys but it sometimes really hurts as a woman to see how men enjoy seeing women treated. I don't know who you hang around, but the hangup on porn and the belief that every guy treats women like he sees in porn is an utter fallacy. Did I say every guy? No. Point out ONE part of my post that isn't true. Just one.
threebyfate Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 For Porn yes. For real life? I've had GF's where I HAD to close the windows before sex. I'm not touching this one with a ten foot pole but I remain unconvinced. I don't think porn is really the problem. I just think there are individuals who can't separate fantasy from reality.
silic0ntoad Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 I don't think porn is really the problem. I just think there are individuals who can't separate fantasy from reality. -insert golf clap here- Well said, short, and sweet.
jthorne Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 I think a lot of youngsters in general have entitlement syndrome. Sad.
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