aroll32 Posted April 12, 2010 Posted April 12, 2010 Ok, this girl invited me to some party where I'm not going to know anyone. I said yes because she's nice and I like her. She's semi-attractive, and I saw no reason to say no at the time. Then I figured out the only people I am going to know there are her, and one of my good friend's psycho ex. Not to mention it's one of those themed parties where everyone dresses up (I absolutely hate these). I don't want to bail now that I already said yes, but I really don't want to go. There's no part of me that does. Now, I don't want to piss this girl off, but I'm not sure what to do. Not to mention I have my FINAL drug test the day after so I don't think I can drink (which would help the situation tremendously). Plus I don't want to give this girl the wrong idea about anything, I'm tired of drama crap.
eraser Posted April 12, 2010 Posted April 12, 2010 Tell her you have something important to take care of the next day. Take a rain check.
CleverName Posted April 12, 2010 Posted April 12, 2010 You said you were going to go, so go; a lame excuse will be transparent. Go, and be careful with your responses next time a dubious invitation rears its head. It's only a party, one night. Keep your word. You may just have a really good time. That's the non-drama solution.
Phateless Posted April 12, 2010 Posted April 12, 2010 Show up and stay for an hour or two. On your way out of the party, give the girl a hug and invite her to a day 2.
Author aroll32 Posted April 13, 2010 Author Posted April 13, 2010 Yeah I guess you guys are right. And yeah, I might have a really good time. Why not give it a go? I just hate doing the whole dress up thing.
skydiveaddict Posted April 13, 2010 Posted April 13, 2010 Yeah I guess you guys are right. And yeah, I might have a really good time. Why not give it a go? I just hate doing the whole dress up thing. Yea , you're just gonna have to man-up and go to the party. BTW, if you leave 12 hrs between your last drink and your drug test, you'll have no problem
Author aroll32 Posted April 13, 2010 Author Posted April 13, 2010 Yup, I figured out I do kind of like her so I know I need to go. And thanks for the advice on the drug test, I just didn't want to fail since its my last one ya know?
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