JoshRubin78 Posted April 12, 2010 Posted April 12, 2010 So I have a gal pal who I always had a little thing for and have known her for about 10 years (we actually went to the same college but met her years later). Its pretty much been a friend thing, and never really saw a lot of her due to distance and schedules and she had a serious BF for a while. About a year ago i took her out to dinner and then hung with her at her house for a few hrs. There was a nasty storm outside and she doesnt like thunder. Anyway she started getting real close to me on the couch and after a while I started rubbing her neck and playing with her hair and she was gently caressing my arms. then we kinda just held each other for a bit and eventually I left..we never even made out or did anything else. I just hung with her 2 months ago and she was at my place for a bit but nuthin happened this time. Anyway, we chatted online last week and i told her i wanted to cook her dinner and open up her house warming present (a bottle of wine that i still have for her). She said sure then just last night she texted me asking when i was gonna cook for her. I really wanna put the moves on her once and for all but am afraid she will shoot me down and it will ruin our friendship. Shes a bit of a strange girl & keeps to herself and is hard to read and predict sometimes. Any suggestions on what i can do? I know this sounds horrible but I dont want to plan an elaborate dinner and then get dissed if i make a move. Usually I go all out for women im dating, but not sure about her. I should also point out that while she is a good friend shes not THAT good of a friend...we maybe see each other once or twice a year. Any suggestions on how to approach this? thanks
boogieboy Posted April 12, 2010 Posted April 12, 2010 You dont treally have a friendship anyway. You dont hang out every day nor talk like friends. You like her and thats how you view it only. So make a move, and you have to take a chance that you cant be friends with her anymore. Besides, you have enough friends. Plus, you better make a move before she friend-zones you, if she hasnt already.
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