Ilovehim Posted April 12, 2010 Posted April 12, 2010 I hate going to bed mad...I can't sleep and have to be up early for school, have to study for exams, I'm so stressed and my b/f and i got into a relevant argument and I'm so mad, I don't want this to be over but i'm so mad at him, overall im hurt and he knows that i care alot about him so i feel like he takes advantage of it... when we argue i feel like he has the upper hand because he cares less (in my opinion, although he denies it). I HATE IT!!! Why do the people who care more and are sweethearts always end up getting the shorter end of the stick??? He's one of the best things that has ever happened to me but after this argument, I don't even know where we stand. I don't want to lose him. I feel sad, confused and can't sleep.
boogieboy Posted April 12, 2010 Posted April 12, 2010 This is why youre not supposed to date while youre in school.
Els Posted April 12, 2010 Posted April 12, 2010 Oh c'mon. Most of us are in college/university til we're 22 or so. If we waited til then to date, we'd be denying ourselves experience that'll prepare us for life ahead, AND we'll miss out on young love. OP, sorry you're feeling this way, the only thing I can advise you to do is learn to compartmentalize. Easier said than done, I know. Try to write your feelings down in a journal or something, then forget about it and focus on school until it can be resolved.
make me believe Posted April 12, 2010 Posted April 12, 2010 Well, if this is a pattern in your relationship then you probably need to rethink things. Why are you with him if you feel like he doesn't care, and always has the upperhand? Relationships should be based on mutual caring, give & take, all that good cheesy stuff. I often can't sleep if I get into an argument with my bf, but it's never because I feel like he doesn't care about me or takes advantage of my feelings for him..
Els Posted April 12, 2010 Posted April 12, 2010 Um, for what it's worth, I also think you should postpone thinking about whether or not you want to stay in the relationship til after exams. There's plenty of time to make such decisions, when you won't have to agonize over them at the expense of your future.
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