JJJJKKKKJJJJ Posted April 12, 2010 Posted April 12, 2010 My ex is thoroughly convinced that I do not want to be talk with him. He said to a mutual friend that he is worried about me - and trying to adjust to us not being friends. He is hurt... But...a part of me wants to wait for him to contact me and a part of me wants to contact him, but I don't want to go back on my word (I initiated NC). His birthday is this week... I don't know what to do.
Author JJJJKKKKJJJJ Posted April 12, 2010 Author Posted April 12, 2010 So I texted him last night "your absence has gone through me like thread through a neddle. And what I stitch is colored with it." (It's from a bookand I quoted it.) And he responded... I miss your friendship as a color on my palette, its hue leaving colorless spaces on my canvas that will not be filled. What the heck do I say back to that? I wasn't expecting that.
Odyssey Posted April 12, 2010 Posted April 12, 2010 What's with all the poetry?!? Some kinda game? Look OP, it takes work to keep yourself happy and in a relationship...maybe you should just talk and find out what you each really want. Put everything out there! I mean, the cat is out of the bag anyway, in terms of the wanting him to be your bf 'officially'. It's better that way, so that you don't have arguments over misinterpretations and assumptions, and worst, failed expectations because you thought something about the person, which they didn't know about, so couldn't live up to. You knew it was a was a silly arguement...he knew...lol the whole world knows it was a silly argument ("How to train your Dragon" - great film by the way). You both got defensive and said a lot of BS stuff. So just communicate. Talk. Without all the fancy poetry.
Author JJJJKKKKJJJJ Posted April 15, 2010 Author Posted April 15, 2010 Well the poetry is because we're both writers. lol I called him the other night to wish him a happy birthday and he answered on the first ring. He sounded extremely excited to hear from me (but he was also slightly intoxicated). He asked how I was and I asked the same - then he blurted out "Are we still doing this ignoring one another and not being friends thingy?" and that took me my surprise. I told him that's what I wanted to talk about, but not with him tonight because (1) you're drunk and (2) it's your birthday, friggin' have fun! haha He then called me the pet name he had for me (sunshine pants); it's what he called me all throughout dating, and I just had to finish the convo because I was getting a little emotional. He told me he would call me the next day - but I informed him I will call him later on because I have class all day and needed to study. Well, that's how that went. What do you all think?
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