mlsantangelo Posted April 12, 2010 Posted April 12, 2010 Me and my ex broke up after 2 1/2 years, horribly in November 2009. We had NC until 02/2010 as we had/have financial issues still trying to get done with. He started talking to his co-worker shortly after he said he didn't want to be with me ( I treated him horrible during the last 6 months of our relationship...he was not responsible enough in my opinon). So he has been with the new gf since December 2010. However in 02/2010 I contacted him via text from a party I was at, he came and got me and took me home and we were intimate. Then he wanted to work things out with me but wanted to break it off with her "slowly", which upset me since he left me so easily. I told him this and he said he decided to stay with her. Then in 03/2010 with little to NC by myself or him he comes over to my place and we are intimate again. He says he still loves me and misses me, but loves her too. Is he just using me should I move on with NC at all which I have been doing since this last intimate encouter? I am very hurt and still cry all the time what should I do?
RyanAdams Posted April 12, 2010 Posted April 12, 2010 Stop having sex with him and move on. It didnt work and it wont as long as you are the number 2 girl now. So if he is cheating on his current GF with you, what makes you think he will stick with you if you get back together?
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