angry Posted April 11, 2010 Posted April 11, 2010 Has anyone ever used the software that can read your spouse's emails and computer usage? My husband keeps his cell phone and computer locked and I have not way of finding out, but I know something is going on? Any help?
linwood Posted April 11, 2010 Posted April 11, 2010 Has anyone ever used the software that can read your spouse's emails and computer usage? My husband keeps his cell phone and computer locked and I have not way of finding out, but I know something is going on? Any help? Don`t know how you`d install a logger on either device if he keeps them locked down. Go buy a voice activated mini recorder from Best Buy for $15.00 and stash it under his car seat. You`ll get to hear his end of any cell convo he has in the vehicle.
scatterd Posted April 11, 2010 Posted April 11, 2010 try to get ahold of his phone, type in cheating on web theirf alot of products to help catch cheaters.
sumdude Posted April 12, 2010 Posted April 12, 2010 You could always hire a private investigator. Just be sure you really want to know and can handle actually seeing the evidence. Make sure you pay in cash.
Owl Posted April 12, 2010 Posted April 12, 2010 If you have a good, solid reason to suspect him, you might also point blank confront him when he's got both on hand at the time, and INSIST that he hand them to you along with the passwords...and proceed to inspect them yourself in front of him. If you do this, you're drawing a line in the sand...you need to have some clear cut, dire consequences planned for if (when) he refuses, and you'd better be ready to execute immediately. Do NOT do this if you're not willing to execute those consequences, because if you back down and he refuses, he'll clean up those files and try to show you later that you were wrong...it's called 'gaslighting'. There's nothing wrong with wanting to see your H's txts/emails/etc... and if he tries to convince you otherwise, you should consider it 'proof' that hes' cheating.
floridapad Posted April 15, 2010 Posted April 15, 2010 I used a product called webwatcher but I had access to the computer in order to install it. It is very stealthy. But be prepared. It is ugly seeing the e-mails. Emotionaly devastating. The other way is how Owl described. If he doesn't allow it right then and there it is SURE proof he is hiding something, regardless of him saying it's private. Your his wife. But know this. He will always deny deny deny. ALL cheaters do. BTW what makes you suspect he is cheating. We are all pretty adept at identifying a cheating spouse on here so rest assured if you give us some insight we can give you an answer with a good deal accuracy. Good luck
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