rivermagic Posted April 11, 2010 Posted April 11, 2010 My problem is... My boyfriend and I got in a fight around 7 days ago. I asked him when he was going to pick the rest of his stuff up. He said no I will call you when I get home from work. 4 days went by and he showed up at the door. Gave me some money he owed me. Told me he would have the rest at the end of the month. He then said he would be back on Saturday to pick the rest of his things up. He walked out. Saturday was yesterday and he did not show up for his things. I have not called him, he did not contact me either. I do want him back, so what I am wondering is.... How long should I wait to call him? Should I wait for him to call me? Is he leaving his things here as an excuse to see me?
Ronni_W Posted April 11, 2010 Posted April 11, 2010 Is he leaving his things here as an excuse to see me? Based on how he's been treating you, that you posted about -- I'd say, sadly no, he does not think-believe that he needs any "excuses" to see you. It's more likely that he knows he can come and go and do to you as he pleases, and you'll ultimately just tolerate and accept it. I agree with alpha: Call your ex now...and let him know that if he doesn't pick up his crap by <9pm Monday>, you're going to box it all up and leave at the curb. Follow that up with an email, so you'll have proof that you gave him notice. And then just do it if he doesn't show up by whatever time-day you give him.
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