juju Posted January 17, 2004 Posted January 17, 2004 im 19 and i recently found out the guy im interested turned out to be 33! i had no idea..is that too old for me?? im a little scared but i still like him...
yes Posted January 17, 2004 Posted January 17, 2004 don't worry about age; worry about where he is in life and how much you have in common and about his r/s history. good luck, -yes
SoleMate Posted January 17, 2004 Posted January 17, 2004 It wouldn't be my first choice for you. Individuals vary. If you are mature, and he is ethical, it might work. But I'd still be wondering why he isn't interested in people a bit closer to his age. "Hey, sixteen, that's Aretha Franklin. She don't remember the queen of soul."
juju Posted January 17, 2004 Posted January 17, 2004 see he called me to tell me he was too old for me. i was the one who persued him first not knowing his age, i also told him i still wanted to see him and he said he wants to see me as long as i dont have a problem with it. hes still a little standoffish but we are gonna hang out.
confussed-one Posted January 17, 2004 Posted January 17, 2004 i myself had issues with a me dealing with a 17 year old when i was 20. But if you two dont have problems with it then i would suppose its ok. I guess it could be a little dangerous. But if you feel safe, and you are both conftable, and you have talked about it then who knows, maybe its alright.
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