so what do you do?

[myhearthurtsbadly]

So tell me what do you do when: your girlfriend breaks up with you, sleeps with other guys, wants you back, breaks up with you again, you take her back again, says she wants to have children together, breaks up with you again, kisses you in a club two days after the breakup, ignores you the day after, refuses to give your stuff back, get into an arguement,brings false assault charges against you, sees other guys during and after this. What do you when despite all this you still love her and miss her, what do you do if she is the first thing you think about in the morning and the last thing and night. What do you do when you can see her talking to her friends about other guys on facebook. What do you do when the love of your life ends two years together like this? Please what the hell do you do?

[skydiveaddict]

Stop having any contact w/her. it's that simple

[Art_Critic]

You thank God that you didn't marry her, have any kids with her and that you broke up.

 

You move on simply put, realizing of course that you just dodged the bullet of a lifetime of misery.

[Fouts]

Get some self respect, gain some independence and get a life without this cancer involved in it.

[CarrieT]

The bigger question is, "why do you keep taking her back when she has such a pattern of walking all over you?"

 

And, like others have said, count your blessings that you don't have to deal with divorce and children. There are a LOT of people in this world to love and who will love in return without that kind of nastiness.

[MrsPeaSoup]

OP - Please, for the sake of you.. let her go! Please go NC and just be a bit harsh with yourself and her. You really need to let her know she can't keep up with this. Please take the advice others have already given you.

 

It will help.