grrrrrr

[DontWorryBHappy]

Vent. About 5 days ago I sent my ex an ultra sappy NC message and FINALLY blocked him from facebook (best decision ever by the way). The message WAS very sappy.... very, very sappy... A few days later I was uncomfortable with the xtreme sappiness and decided to send a much more clear-headed message. It actually was a well-crafted message and portrayed me to be sane and well-adjusted. Still, I figured by that point he probably thought I was nuts (ultra sappy NC message, blocking from facebook, THEN contacting him again) so I was preparing for him to not contact me anymore. To my surprise he sent a message the next day, breaking the ice by telling me he was in Gerogia for the day. In the clear-headed message I said I would give him space but he could call or text me if he wanted to talk. I guess he took that to mean we could chat regularly again because a few hours later I got a "Wat u up to?" message. I told him about my birthday and how I bought my first drink (I just turned 21). He said he wanted to go out too and might tonight (last night). I said I might go out too with a friend. So last night I was feeling good, wayyyy more clear-headed, less emotional in general... then out of nowhere I get a text from him that he's on his way out too (to a club). Why did he go out of his way to tell me he was on the way to a club??? Annoyed me for the rest of the night. :/

Edited April 11, 2010 by DontWorryBHappy

[nobmagnet]

dont ask if you cant take the relpy love

 

you were off out.......he was off out. He maybe thinks you are over him. Either that or a git.

 

sometimes......and i mean sometimes NC is the only way to heal yourself. You cant expect him to be in a chair pinning for you 24/7 nor he you.

 

take care

 

Nobby xx

[mickleb]

Owie. That scab you keep picking's going to start scarring soon.

 

Maybe that's your intention, DWBH?

 

x

[DontWorryBHappy]

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[CarrieT]

I sent my ex an ultra sappy NC message and FINALLY blocked him from facebook (best decision ever by the way). The message WAS very sappy.... very, very sappy... A few days later I was uncomfortable with the xtreme sappiness and decided to send a much more clear-headed message.

 

Guess what, sweets -- NC *means* NO CONTACT. You don't send "NC messages." That is contradicting yourself and sending messages is opening yourself up to replies which you are obviously going to cause problems.

 

Just adopt NC and stick to it.

[Odyssey]

OP, i would stop texting! what if you get a text from him saying he'd picked up a chick at the club?!? That would be torture! Sometimes no news is good news.