I dnt get him!! !

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I've been dating this guy for three months and a half now, and i honestly rlly care for him. From the first time i've layed eyes on him, there was something about him, (cheesy i know) and we made eye contact that would last untill we passed one another in the hall way usually surrounded by crowds of people. this lasted for about a year of us saying absolutely nothing but almost everyday we would do the same thing. It wasnt till this year after my first bf that i dated for year and i broke up did me and my current bf start dating. And before me and my ex even broke up, me and my current bf became fast friends always chatting.

 

But the beginning of the relationship was amazing, it was different, mainly because he is sooo different. we saw each other every weknd, tlked every night, all i thought was him, after a month after all of this he told me that he loved me, he said it with soo much certainty that it pained me that i couldnt say it back the same way. I had jus gotten out of a relationship and i was still pretty hurt, and it was moving soo fast, and plus he had never been in a real relationship. So to me i jus felt as though he jus said it cause he rlly liked me, because he doesnt actually know what love is.

after about a month later i was finally able to say it back and mean it.

And after words i made the worst mistake of losing my virginity to him, and he lost his virginity to me. Because i had planned on waiting a lot longer before i was willing to give it up to him, expecially since we hadnt been dating for that long.

 

A little after that, everything was fine, but a string of events have questioned if he really cares. The thing about him is he is sooo smart, genius smart, and so he can miss weeks of school come back without studying and completely ace's the test. Thats jus him.

 

But he misses school because he doesnt feel he needs to attend school, he skips and cuts class, parties, and smokes ciggerates all things i dnt do and all things i dislike and promised myself i would never date a guy lik that. But for some reason he is an exception.

 

But lately he has been acting like he doesnt care, we havent spent time with one another in weeks, all because he is spends time with his friends instead of going to get his license. I tell him and he says he's sorry but jus doesnt have the time, i say ok well make time, he says i will. NEver does, i ask for him to at least talk to me every day. If you cant call me and talk to me for a bit. txt me through out the day. he says ok ok im sorry. does so for awhile then abruptly stops. It usually takes him forever to txt back hours. And when i confront him he gives me a lame excuse. I feel i nag him alot but idk wat else to do.

 

I ask that he quits smoking, he does so for two to three days. then says he couldnt do it and goes right back to it. And every time i feel i need to pull the plug he starts acting like my bf again and i cant do it. It hurts too much just to think about leaving him. But i feel its needed at times. But i know if i break up with him, he wont come back, wont even try to come back because his view point on that is "if you have to take it to the point where you have to break up with me, and u couldnt take the initiative to try to make it work or fix it instead then, yea we should break up, for good"

 

* so idk wat to do, (ps sorry for the lenghth!!!)

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Most relationships end in the 3-4 month window. People get to know one another and one half or sometimes both decide it's just not what they're looking for.