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We were having an awesome conversation texting each other until I said "nice name" after she mentioned her name then did not text back.

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No, you didn't "screw up".

She may have misinterpreted how you meant it...but that's her misinterpretation, not any problem on your side. (If she was somehow triggered, her appropriate/mature response would have been to say that she didn't know how to take your comment about her name, and ask you to clarify.)

 

I'd also suggest to be cautious of people who can't express their feelings and/or go MIA as a replacement for clear, open, honest communication -- too often it ends up where we're forever on the 'wrong side' of their misinterpretations, feeling guilty and wanting to apologize for (non-existent) "transgressions" against them.

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