RKO Posted April 11, 2010 Posted April 11, 2010 I met a girl 3 years back and fall in love at the first sight. It took me sometime to approach her because I was new to the place. After few months I got the opportunity to talk and become friends. After a year so I said what I really feel about her. Her reply was not a "No" but she did not tell "Yes" as well. Time went by and I gave her what ever she ask for ...etc. Bond grew stronger and stronger but never got to know what she really feels about me. There was a long time friend of hers ( a boy) and we never liked each other. Problems turn up because of him and I left her and neglected her when ever I meet her. Then she was behind me pleading to be normal and not to leave her. So I once again came to her back and became "normal" myself to her. In this way she gave few tips about the answer but never admitted it till now. I can`t figure out the head and tail of this. Any ideas???? :confused:
The Paper Knight Posted April 11, 2010 Posted April 11, 2010 I can`t figure out the head and tail of this. Any ideas???? :confused: Just slap one on her, if she pulls away then you have your answer.
Rorschach Posted April 11, 2010 Posted April 11, 2010 sounds like you've been pretty firmly 'friends listed'. If I were you I'd just confront her again and just explain nicely the way you feel and that you just have to know in a definitive yes or no answer whether she feels the same way to you. This may stop the friendship if she starts acting weird about it, but since you said you've talked to her before I don't think it's going to be a problem, the big thing is to just stop the ambiguity which just drives us men crazy. Fact of life: Yes is okay, no is okay, maybe sucks.
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