Arasae Posted April 11, 2010 Posted April 11, 2010 I need your opinions, men. So, while waiting for the guy I've gone on a couple of dates with to invite me out again, I've been barraged by text after text from a guy that I dated a few months ago for sex. UGH. It's starting to really make me angry! I dated texter-guy for like six months.. well, it started out as dating, but clearly became more of a FwB situation. At first, he was exactly what the doctor ordered, but then eventually became a total jerk--before, he called me every day, took me on dates, etc, but then it just became a booty call. Then he didn't call me for like a month, saw me for my 21st birthday a few days ago, and hasn't left me alone since then. I told him I'd been on a few dates with someone else and wanted to see where it went without, you know, screwing it up. And he told me that I needed to come over and "hang out" now before it "gets too serious". I asked him why, and he's responded with, "because when it's not solid, you can still play." Seriously? UGH! Men, I need your input! Say you'd gone on a few dates with a girl, and then it got serious. If, in the course of those first few dates, you found out she'd been sleeping with someone else, a former flame, wouldn't you be at least a little ticked off by that? Wouldn't that potentially ruin something awesome? Regardless of response, it doesn't change my mind; I, for one, would be livid if I found out someone I ended up seeing seriously had been screwing another girl during our first few dates, and I can do none other than hold myself to those standards I set for him. Still, opinions?
TaraMaiden Posted April 11, 2010 Posted April 11, 2010 Text back: "Too late, loser, it's already serious. you had your chance to gain the perfect gal, and blew it. Go find another lay because this one's moved on." He might get the message.....
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