Don'tWannabeAWannabe Posted April 11, 2010 Posted April 11, 2010 Men hate being rejected, especially in bars and clubs, where women are "supposed" to be at "loosest" and most "outgoing." They love being able to hookup in bars and clubs, and conversely, women feel ashamed of meeting men in bars and clubs (I remember a report somewhere that the majority of women who meet their boyfriends in bars and clubs lie about where and how they met them when asked about it later; I know for a fact that an ex did) So I was wondering, do women feel the same pride in rejecting men in clubs and bars as men do hooking up there?
SadandConfusedWA Posted April 11, 2010 Posted April 11, 2010 I only feel pride in rejecting a known player and putting him in his place.
TaraMaiden Posted April 11, 2010 Posted April 11, 2010 Men hate being rejected, especially in bars and clubs, where women are "supposed" to be at "loosest" and most "outgoing." They love being able to hookup in bars and clubs, and conversely, women feel ashamed of meeting men in bars and clubs (I remember a report somewhere that the majority of women who meet their boyfriends in bars and clubs lie about where and how they met them when asked about it later; I know for a fact that an ex did) So I was wondering, do women feel the same pride in rejecting men in clubs and bars as men do hooking up there? I think this is an idiotic question. Women are supposed to be loosest and outgoing in bars? oh you mean, slightly drunk and therefore more likely to let themselves be picked up for a quick screw? And then you go on to say women feel ashamed about hooking up in bars? Yes, because they knew they'd let their guard down and let some guy talk them into doing something they didn't really want to do, so the guy was obviously taking advantage.... If a man takes pride in hooking up in a bar, he should remember that the woman only did it because she let her defences down, and was a little bit tipsy..... Would she have hooked up with him if she hadn't had a drink? probably not..... A woman who can reject a guy in a bar, isn't proud about it. She's just sober.
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