Bethany86 Posted April 11, 2010 Posted April 11, 2010 Hi All, I'm new to this site and was just looking for some outside opinions. Me and my ex broke up about a month ago, I decided to end it due to the distance between us. We have been LC for the whole 4 weeks. I went NC for 5 days. He has initiated contact on each occasion. I wouldn't mind giving things another shot, I miss him. The thing is I was doing so well without contact. I text him this morning............Asking him for another shot, he never replied within 5 minutes so I then sent another...."I'm pissed. I was fine until you got back in ouch with me"! He then replied "It's sunday morning you big loser (in a joking way) go back to bed, I need my beauty sleep". Is he avoiding the issue all together ? If so, then why is he replying ?
monkeymaid Posted April 11, 2010 Posted April 11, 2010 you broke it off. . ...hes trying to get his mind straight. and hes playing aloof. if you want him back, you better go begging. tell him why this wont happen again, ask for forgiveness, etc... then give him time to sort through his own emotions and thoughts. if hes still talking to you, then he is still interested. it hasnt been long enough for him to just move on. i say its time to bridge the distance and go get him back...in person. my $.02
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